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Okay my life is falling apart, i used to do well in school but lately i haven't found any motivation to just keep going. When i said i mean i did well, i used to be always in the top 10 when it comes to high scores in quizzes and exams. I'm aware college is a different level, but still if i had actually reviewed it's actually still so easy but I don't. Instead i get distracted with other stuff, I get stressed out about things that don't matter and no matter how hard i try not to be stressed out by those things. I can't focus on them. I really want to get back at my studies, it feels humiliating to be the lowest in your class and being picked last when it comes to groupings.
Semester is almost about to end and i haven't even gotten back up yet. I really want to do better in life. Please help me out, this is a cry for help because if i fail college now them my tuition was all for nothing. I don't want to disappoint my parents.
You’re not disappointing anyone by struggling. You’re human, and college is draining even without everything else happening in your life. Talk to a professor if you’re really struggling. You don’t need to spill everything, just say you’ve been overwhelmed and you want to catch up. Most professors appreciate honesty and effort and trust me...... 1 reply
Firstly take a deep breath mate. You gotta get out of your head first, you aren't failing because you are dull or anything you are just at a road block and you need to find out what's making you so tired and resistant to study, you sound like you really love academia and you have been thrown into a new environment.
Tell yourself out loud that you a...... reply
Does your collage have any support systems in place you can reach out to and get help from? Informing them that this is going on could be a great first step. It will allow you to talk to someone who can provide you with a plan and help more taliored to your struggles. Hopefully your college has good support systems in place as this can vary dependi...... reply
Hey there okay first of all I need you to know that this is totally normal and okay and happens to way many people .
I went through the exact same thing actually and I felt like my life was over and felt like I was a failure and a disappointment to my parents n all that too but believe me it gets better .
I was also top in class throughout highsch...... reply
Hello, i just want you to know that like everyone else said, its very okay and pls dont shame yourself.
People sometimes lose themself because pressure and such. Give yourself some time to heal, think about the things you want to do and restrict yourself from procrastination and stuff. When studying, keep yourself calm and take deep breaths. If yo...... reply
