Growing up is realizing that your mom resentment toward your dad is understandable because men will suck the life out of you and your dad will slowly make you realize that as he does the same to you. Remember the moment they say "you act just like your mother" that is how you know you're not the problem. A lot of parents treat their children like an investment. They don't give birth to you because they want you or see you as a symbol of their love but as an obligation and something natural that happens in life. They say they want you to be happy but they bring up their own responsibility that they are supposed to do as parents as debts and a way to guilt trip you. At the end of the day. You'll be the villain that hurts your parents who has done everything for you.
