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Would you rather (cruel edition).
Would you rather open up to someone, exposing your deepest insecurities and being 100% vulnerable? Or listen to someone critique you and your flaws uninterrupted, the call out is harsh but true.
i'm not a masochist but if somebody was actually able to pinpoint and accurately tell me my deepest flaws i would probably fall in love bc they understood me so well reply
I already tell people my inner thoughts unsolicited whenever the chance arises so the second option is def what I would go for. I would straight up ask people: ‘am I ugly/ annoying/ really smart/ etc and they give me affirmative answers but I’m really just fishing for what they think I LACK yknow? reply
Im an open book, and nothing I really do is that crazy or unusual (besides being addicted to yaoi) so idrc about telling someone everything little thing about myself. reply
last time i was vulnerable, i got a first-hand experience of stab-me-in-the-heart level indifference so, nope, never doing that ever again and nothing anyone says is going to be worse than what i told myself in my severe depression era anyway so i can tank pretty much everything now (as long as i'm not yelled at, can't fix that) so option 2 ️ reply
Cold harsh truth, i literally learn more that way than sugarcoated advices that's if, they're actually advices and criticism rather than pointing out insecurities like my looks or weight which i do not want. It takes abit of time to get it through my skull, since I'd probably defend myself subconsciously cus i dislike being misunderstood but yeah. reply