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Victim complex
Ok so my bsf(let’s call her Aphrodite) finally broke it off with her gf(let’s just call her cum stain for now) that we and the rest of our group was all friends with but were thinking about telling her to leave.
So basically Aphrodite was forced to break up over text cause when she asked cum stain to meet up(so she could break it off) she got pressured into telling her that she wanted to break up and then tried to smooth it over by saying she still wanted to talk about it and how she was telling and she felt bad about doing it over text and understands how this can be upsetting to cum stain, but all that wasted sperm did was fucking ignore her and be a bitch.
I unfortunately had to sit with cum stain at lunch too an all she did was shit talk Aphrodite right in front of my face and blast their texts and private business to all her friends without caring how Aphrodite might feel. She acts like the victim of the entire thing when there was valid reasons for the break up which I will now devolve into.
So cum stain recently started to only talk about how shitty her life was and how she was a mistake and how everybody hates her, and whenever we’d try to cheer us up she’d shoot us down, ignore us, and just continue being depressing.
She makes everything about herself, and whenever we hang out as a group, she gets all silent and upset looking like we forced her to be there!!??? None of us ignore her either she just purposely excludes herself and then gets mad at us(mainly Aphrodite).
And Aphrodite has tried to help cum stain so many times but she always gets shot down and nothing happens. It’s exhausting trying to deal with people like that so for her mental health she decided to break up.
Highschool ass behavior from both sides lol.
If she annoys y'all that much just call her out instead of sitting with her at lunch. Complaining to friends about a breakup, even if it was fully ur fault, is also a valid thing. Everyone has their own side of events and their own feelings, being in the wrong doesn't erase them and u need an outlet. Sh...... 1 reply
Update: cum stain started talking to Aphrodite’s toxic ex(who she knew was toxic to her and just horrible in general) and Im not dealing with ts anymore. Im going to confront her straight up and tell her I don’t want to talk to her anymore, and that none of us like her at all. reply
This looks like a situation where i need the other pov too, to choose a side all you're doing is talking shit without actually getting into detail its unhealthy to be with overly negative people which is understandable and can be a good reason to break up with someone but the way all of you as a friend group is forcing someone to get kicked out be...... 1 reply
I would ditch her but also be more vocal in your stance, you didn’t say if you defended Aphrodite or not but you should take a more proactive approach in shutting down this behaviour, it’s one thing to be upset about the break up and complain that it’s over, but airing everything out like it’s a show is too far for a normal break up. Tell h...... reply
