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My bf doesn't hate me right...
Okay I'm a clingy person, with sort of abandonment issues but anyways I want to ask cus I'm overthinking and my bf is reassuring me but it kinda isn't working. I told him to live together with me, cus he's in a boarding house and often complains about his roomates and rent but he refuses and says he "wants some alone time from me too" My mind automatically went "oh no I'm too annoying for him". He tells me it isn't that, but my mind can't still seem to pinpoint cus his rent would be free with me. It's my own house , I'd happily do all the chores for him and even cook breakfast. Like seriously, his roomates sucks and the rent is so high for a room with no air conditoner smh. So I can't just get it why he'd rather still rather stay there than with me. Rent free.
I talked to him about it already but I got a bit of trust issues because I've seen some of my exes pretend everything is fine but it isn't deep down. We had some few nights together but he still refuses.
I'm gonna say something insane and I will be cancelled. From this post alone I can tell you are overbearing as a person, and that's a problem for serious commited relationships. I think (from my experience of relationships) he knows that if he lives with you he'll come to resent your "needy" personality. Like girl youre willing to cook, clean, pay ...... 2 reply
I personally think that it’s a good thing that you’ve talked about it to him and I understand what you’re thinking.
But some people can’t handle being with the same person every minute of their life and it’s not because they hate said person. I’m like that and I really love my bf but I couldn’t even start to think about living with h...... 3 reply
Ahhhh I forgot to mention he's 2-3 years older than me. He's graduating soon, like actually this year . We're both college students , he's honestly rich af. I feel bad overall charging him rent when he's given me so much too. 1 reply
