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Sensitive Topic: Be Honest, a Scenario
This involves sensitive topic. I genuinely wish to hear different perspectives, no matter if bad or good. Be honest.
Let’s just say you were an abuser, always wanting the person you liked throughout grade school to be yours, even hurting them with the words of ‘property’, etc. You genuinely love them, but you do not show that properly, you are a piece of shit that should probably rot.
What if your supposed beloved wanted to escape from you, and due to self-incident as the method, became diagnosed with Retrograde Amnesia? Meaning they cannot remember what happened before the incident, but they may remember only the good first year they met you?
They want to become closer with you, and they tell you:
They reached up and touched your cheek, their thumb stroking just below your eye. “I look at you, and I feel… safe. And warm. But I don’t remember the love you gave me. I’m sorry.” His expression crumpled with genuine, but kind regret. “I hope, one day, I remember your love. I don’t want you to have loved someone who can’t remember it.”
They want to remember your love, the love that wasn’t there, would you let them go or try to fix your “mistakes”?
I will immediately break down and cry my ass off cuz wtf man this person actually liked me that first year that I wasn't an asshole. After crying I would say how badly I'd treated them and apologize times infinity... Idc if they don't remember it, that person from back then deserves the apology, even if they can't hear me they still deserve an apol...... 1 reply
an irredeemable pos will always be an irredeemable pos. an abuser would never try to "fix" themselves bc to them, they are incapable of being wrong. even if they did somehow "realise" what they did wasn't moral, they're selfish bastards who will always put themselves first. so given that the person of their affections is willing to totally devote t...... reply
This is a plot to some BLs and no, obviously let them go. It's fucked up on their end, nothing you do will redeem you from whatever trauma you gave them. Also psychologically speaking their body will remember it even if their mind won't. When they remember they'll just be in despair. Also what even is this scenario?? I know it's an If but genuinely...... reply
Well in the eyes of the abuser they will continue to do so no matter what, even if they were aware that their actions are ethically and morally wrong, emotionally they’re apathetic to the repercussions.
Now there are many reasons as to why one would resort to such toxic behaviour to declare their love. However, those with such mindset cannot be c...... reply
If I was an abuser that would harm the person I supposedly love to the point of them trying to end their own life, then gained them back again and this time they willingly fell in love with me? I wouldn't take a chance about telling the shit I did before. Heck I would even try to isolate them from their friends and family since I'm assuming they kn...... reply
Well first of all that's so sensitive now if you would let me give my point of view on both the characters for now lets say the boy was the abuser and the girl was the one who forgot her memories . Also I like psychology so that would be the main thing I'll be talking about let's start
the boy liked the girl throughout grad school so they become f...... reply
Personally, I'd let them go, I'd stay away as much as I can even if my inner feelings opposes to it, cause they deserve someone better and I just know it would never be me. Although It wouldn't change the fact that I've hurt them more than I think I did, I'm still choosing to run away. But will also fix myself along the way and try to change.
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