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Is it bad to think negatively about your friends first and new relationship?
Hello! I have a friend who I grew up with and I see her at her worse and now she is finally happy. I saw her went through everything, she have a shitty life, she always feel forgotten, she's a middle child and the only daughter. But now she is in a relationship with a guy we met on the internet and she's happy. They met last year and they met up this January and I went with her, the thing that bothers me is how the guy reacted when they first met. I saw how excited and happy she was while the dude is just standing there awkwardly. It planted something in me that I need to be on guard about the guy. I'm happy for her but I'm afraid that my negative thoughts are true. Especially now that she gave her first everything to him. I'm happy to see her happy but I'm scared for her. I told her that I don't fully trust him but she knows him best so I'll trust her decision.
How should I handle this? Is it bad that I am feeling like this?
Not really, online relationship to meeting up isn't exactly always going to end up good. Honestly from your friends POV I understand she may not see all the red flags since her life being that as well. Just guide her, you can trust the guy but again most of those relationship don't end well since technically their online selves are different from t...... reply
Tbh, I can say from experience personalitys online and irl are sooooooo different it’s not even really the same person atp, so I really doubt people dating each other when they met online is ever gonna work T-T I’d be the awkward dude in this situation so I wanna give him the benefit of the doubt and say he prolly meant no harm but idk I don’...... 2 reply
Helllooo, as someone who met my lover online and is still dating them (we’re 4 years together and not breaking up) id say, you’re not a bad person for feeling this way. I understand that you're worried for your best friend, and thats great since while worrying, not only did you express it to your friend instead of bottling it up but you also di...... reply
