i mainly read bl so that’s what i can best reference, but i think it’s once you start acting like the things you read should be mimicked in reality. you start categorizing people unnecessarily. like you start trying to guess who’s a bottom and who’s a top. if they’re a twink, that sort of thing. drumming up relationships between people wh...... reply
When u read GL/BL but proceed to be homophobic IRL.
Even if you aren't homophobic, you fetishise irl people and cross parasocial boundaries.
When you rave and get off to Heated Rivalry but at the same time shit on Bridgerton S5 for having a lesbian couple and cry about book accuracy even though it hasn't been book accurate since day 1.
Those are...... reply