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Opinions on this “gay men fetish”
So now I’m seeing that a few people are fetishizing gay men now. I didn’t even know this was a thing yet until I started to see questions talking about this situation. So, this is just my opinion, so you shouldn’t get into a fight with me trying to prove me your opinion is better, but I believe fetishizing gay men for being gay is awful. I can’t explain it well, but I really dislike it.
And I hate it when those types of people pull out the “I like BL/Yaoi” because that doesn’t even prove anything. Gay men should be seen as people, not as men being seen as gay. This type of logic is, excuse me for my language, but it’s fucked up. Just by using the “I like BL/Yaoi” card, it proves that you might possibly fetishize gay men. And if you do, why?!
Gay men are people, not tools. Heck, straight people are getting hated on for basically just being straight, like what’s wrong with you all!? Accept someone for being themselves, not how they are seen on some sort of manga/Manhwa or whatever. That’s stereotyping people. Just like how now people are starting to stereotype fujoshi’s/fudanshi’s or anyone in general for liking Yaoi/BL.
Anyways, that’s all I’m saying. Don’t wanna drag this on for too long or else this will get boring.
Can someone pls explain to me what fetishizing gay men exactly means?? Like i dont quite understand it...does it mean its some kind of kink orr? Ive heard
allot about it but never really understood.Sorry if i come off as dumb but english isnt my first language even tho im actually good at it :( Someone help 1 reply
How do i know if im not one of the fetishisers? Cause when i say i like yaoi or bl ppl just casually assume that im a fetishiser (i’ve had this happen to me 3 times, one even called me disgusting) its a genuine question, like how do u differentiate a fetishiser? 1 reply
As with all other posts, I'll keep this one short. Yaoi doesn't depict real gay relationships. It's made by Japanese women, who often don't know anything other than the fact it's two dudes in a relationship.
It's almost impossible for categories and subcategories of porn not to fetishize something. But they fetishize fictional characters, it's a v...... 1 reply
