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Friendship and boundaries
Is it smart to meet up and begin talking again with a friend who has ghosted me three times because of mental health issues? (Venting) He is very kind and understanding most of the time. I really wanna be there for him, but I think I’m letting him walk all over me.
Uhm, no offense but if he has mental health issues it’s not really his fault if he’s not mentally stable enough to take the time to talk to you. If you don’t want to be friends with someone who is mentally ill and cant be perfectly ok 24/7 just don’t be friends…? No need to make it worse for both of you. reply
I get you. This is why I hate how romanticized mental health is sometimes. People don’t really understand how it can make you a poor friend, partner, or parent.
I’m not going to tell you to be understanding or to enforce boundaries because relationships are complex. Even if you explain yall relationship to me I’ll never fully comprehend all ...... reply