I will never understand the use of targeting innocent and quiet students in class just to make a joke on a possible insecurity of theirs just for a stupid joke that gets no laughter or just a few seconds of it.
Men these days ride each other's ding-a-ling so fucking hard that they have so much confidence built up they start to think they're better or look better than people who don't even bother them and get the confidence to pick on innocent people. Nothing's wrong with hyping your friends up, but if the hype is so much to where that friend is literally starting to talk down on innocent people and joke about their insecurities, that's when it's gone too far. I hate this generation of men and their high fucking egos where they assume that because their friends are gonna back them up and support their bullying, that their invincible. If it wasn't obvious at this point, I was bullied today and called ugly in front of my whole class and my teacher did nothing about it. I do not care if people think this isn't a serious issue, it's serious to me because this can lead to someone taking their life due to bullying like this over and over, and I'm not even going to mention worse.
I just wanted to rant because this ruined my mood entirely after this happened. To anyone that's been bullied, please know you're amazing and people bully others because they want attention that their parents don't give them and clearly to get over their own insecurities themselves that they see in others. I'm tired of bullies, we're too old for this shit. Start whooping your children when you find out they're bullies please.
Yeah i feel you :/ theres sooo many male incels these days it’s actually insane..i have a little brother and i swear to god i’ll make sure he’ll be raised into a good gentleman! These men lack empathy and respect, its quite common unfortunately.
unfortunately it’s not just the men of today or younger generations, the reason why men have this seemingly unfounded, overflowing confidence in themselves is because about 95% of the world has been patriarchal for hundreds of years, in some places thousands, because men typically tend to be taller and have a bigger build than women so for eons they have been seen as being the “stronger sex”. All the infuriating over confidence of men comes from hundreds and hundreds of years of patriarchal societies where men are at the top, they hold all the political positions and thus political power so they make all the political decisions and laws, so naturally they make decisions and laws that benefit them significantly more than they benefit women. There are very few cultures throughout all of human existence that have been 100% matriarchal but they have existed and some do still exist today, but the ones that still exist today are very small and NOT found in western countries. Men are over confident about every aspect of themselves for the same reason why white people don’t fear the police or other law enforcement in predominantly white countries, because for hundreds of years systems have been in place which place that group, men and white people, at the very top of power and influence, and because they controlled that power they had nothing to fear from those under their control in that system, because they made the rules to benefit themselves and make themselves immune to repercussions and responsibilities, but made the rules very harsh and punishing for everyone who is not them. From what you said, it seems you are still in high school, and for that I am very sorry, high school is the worst and teenage boys are also the worst, I do not miss any of that at all. If you haven’t already, I HIGHLY suggest that you read up on and learn about the history of the patriarchy and how it has shaped the modern world, but also read up on and learn about the women’s suffrage movement which later evolved into feminism and women’s fight for freedom, equality, and equity, and how far women’s rights around the world have come in the last 150 years thanks to those extraordinarily brave women who fought to better the world for their daughters, granddaughters, and all further female descendants. The things that early suffragettes endured when they were fighting for the right to vote at the beginning of the 1900s was unimaginably horrific.
I read all of this and I love how you said it. I'll definitely be reading more on that, because I've recently been studying and going over women's suffrage and it's crazy the things women went through. I wish it wasn't like this and people had respect and just treated each other as equal
I read all of this and I love how you said it. I'll definitely be reading more on that, because I've recently been studying and going over women's suffrage and it's crazy the things women went through. I wish i... SleepDeprivedAlways
my other piece of advice, as someone who was bullied all throughout my years at school, although only ever by other girls because I’ve always been tall (I was taller than literally every guy in my grade until grade 8 when they started to finally grow taller, but I’ve been 5’9” or 176cm since I was 14 and also did martial arts for years growing up and it was known that I had no qualms throwing hands with the guys in my grade, kicking them hard as fuck in the shins and elbowing them in the throat whenever they trifled with me). Anyway, bullies do what they do to get a reaction out of you, they WANT to rile you up until you explode with emotion and give them a big reaction to what they do to you, that’s what gives them that sick thrill and sense of superiority, that’s why they do it, because it’s even funnier to them when you explode back at them. The way to take all the fun out of it for them, take all the wind out of their sails and make yourself no longer a fun plaything for them to target is to NOT give them ANY reaction at all! Pretend you didn’t hear what they said or that you didn’t even know they spoke at all, don’t show any emotion on your face or in your body language, and if they keep pestering you after you don’t acknowledge them, respond with “what? I didn’t hear what you said?” and if they repeat what they said ONLY EVER respond with “ok and… like is that all or can I get back to what I was doing?” and say it with complete indifference and nonchalance, like you literally could not care any fucking less that they exist and breathe the same air as you. They won’t know what to do with themselves, they will get flustered and embarrassed that you didn’t react how you used to or how they expected/wanted you to, and will either leave you alone immediately or pester you a bit more in which case you keep up the nonchalance and indifference until they do give up and leave. Yes it will be REALLY hard not to react in the moment, but practice some breathing techniques, deep breath in, hold it for 2-3 seconds, then deep breath out, then wait 2-3 seconds before you repeat, focusing on your breathing during those moments, literally in your mind thinking “deep breath in, hold, deep breath out, hold, deep breath in” will distract your mind from thinking about how much what they’re saying bothers and upsets you because you don’t have the space in your mind to think about it. And then when you get home, take all those temporarily bottled up feelings out on a pillow, beat the absolute shit out of it, yell and scream if you can, make sure you get all those negative emotions OUT, it’s not healthy to ignore them and keep them bottled up and this method allows you to safely and somewhat healthily let them out of you (this is a method my therapist recommended to me, so it is legit). I did that to my bullies in high school, ignored them and acted completely indifferent and uncaring to the mean things they said and did, and they got bored of bullying me and stopped. I wish you all the best and hope this works for you, it will take a bit of time, a few weeks, of your repeated not caring and not reacting before your bullies finally get bored, give up, and leave you alone but it will happen so don’t give up!!
Yes, because a few guys bullied you, now suddenly all men are the problem. I may not know how you look physically but I can say your personality is ugly.
mhhh how weird then… not all men BUT… all women have experienced something terrible with a man… really brillant to blame women for calling out patriarchy and sexism !!!
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Yeah i feel you :/ theres sooo many male incels these days it’s actually insane..i have a little brother and i swear to god i’ll make sure he’ll be raised into a good gentleman! These men lack empathy and respect, its quite common unfortunately.
unfortunately it’s not just the men of today or younger generations, the reason why men have this seemingly unfounded, overflowing confidence in themselves is because about 95% of the world has been patriarchal for hundreds of years, in some places thousands, because men typically tend to be taller and have a bigger build than women so for eons they have been seen as being the “stronger sex”. All the infuriating over confidence of men comes from hundreds and hundreds of years of patriarchal societies where men are at the top, they hold all the political positions and thus political power so they make all the political decisions and laws, so naturally they make decisions and laws that benefit them significantly more than they benefit women. There are very few cultures throughout all of human existence that have been 100% matriarchal but they have existed and some do still exist today, but the ones that still exist today are very small and NOT found in western countries. Men are over confident about every aspect of themselves for the same reason why white people don’t fear the police or other law enforcement in predominantly white countries, because for hundreds of years systems have been in place which place that group, men and white people, at the very top of power and influence, and because they controlled that power they had nothing to fear from those under their control in that system, because they made the rules to benefit themselves and make themselves immune to repercussions and responsibilities, but made the rules very harsh and punishing for everyone who is not them.
From what you said, it seems you are still in high school, and for that I am very sorry, high school is the worst and teenage boys are also the worst, I do not miss any of that at all. If you haven’t already, I HIGHLY suggest that you read up on and learn about the history of the patriarchy and how it has shaped the modern world, but also read up on and learn about the women’s suffrage movement which later evolved into feminism and women’s fight for freedom, equality, and equity, and how far women’s rights around the world have come in the last 150 years thanks to those extraordinarily brave women who fought to better the world for their daughters, granddaughters, and all further female descendants. The things that early suffragettes endured when they were fighting for the right to vote at the beginning of the 1900s was unimaginably horrific.
I read all of this and I love how you said it. I'll definitely be reading more on that, because I've recently been studying and going over women's suffrage and it's crazy the things women went through. I wish it wasn't like this and people had respect and just treated each other as equal
my other piece of advice, as someone who was bullied all throughout my years at school, although only ever by other girls because I’ve always been tall (I was taller than literally every guy in my grade until grade 8 when they started to finally grow taller, but I’ve been 5’9” or 176cm since I was 14 and also did martial arts for years growing up and it was known that I had no qualms throwing hands with the guys in my grade, kicking them hard as fuck in the shins and elbowing them in the throat whenever they trifled with me). Anyway, bullies do what they do to get a reaction out of you, they WANT to rile you up until you explode with emotion and give them a big reaction to what they do to you, that’s what gives them that sick thrill and sense of superiority, that’s why they do it, because it’s even funnier to them when you explode back at them. The way to take all the fun out of it for them, take all the wind out of their sails and make yourself no longer a fun plaything for them to target is to NOT give them ANY reaction at all! Pretend you didn’t hear what they said or that you didn’t even know they spoke at all, don’t show any emotion on your face or in your body language, and if they keep pestering you after you don’t acknowledge them, respond with “what? I didn’t hear what you said?” and if they repeat what they said ONLY EVER respond with “ok and… like is that all or can I get back to what I was doing?” and say it with complete indifference and nonchalance, like you literally could not care any fucking less that they exist and breathe the same air as you. They won’t know what to do with themselves, they will get flustered and embarrassed that you didn’t react how you used to or how they expected/wanted you to, and will either leave you alone immediately or pester you a bit more in which case you keep up the nonchalance and indifference until they do give up and leave. Yes it will be REALLY hard not to react in the moment, but practice some breathing techniques, deep breath in, hold it for 2-3 seconds, then deep breath out, then wait 2-3 seconds before you repeat, focusing on your breathing during those moments, literally in your mind thinking “deep breath in, hold, deep breath out, hold, deep breath in” will distract your mind from thinking about how much what they’re saying bothers and upsets you because you don’t have the space in your mind to think about it. And then when you get home, take all those temporarily bottled up feelings out on a pillow, beat the absolute shit out of it, yell and scream if you can, make sure you get all those negative emotions OUT, it’s not healthy to ignore them and keep them bottled up and this method allows you to safely and somewhat healthily let them out of you (this is a method my therapist recommended to me, so it is legit). I did that to my bullies in high school, ignored them and acted completely indifferent and uncaring to the mean things they said and did, and they got bored of bullying me and stopped. I wish you all the best and hope this works for you, it will take a bit of time, a few weeks, of your repeated not caring and not reacting before your bullies finally get bored, give up, and leave you alone but it will happen so don’t give up!!
Yes, because a few guys bullied you, now suddenly all men are the problem. I may not know how you look physically but I can say your personality is ugly.
She not wrong though
not all men bullshit in the big 2026 are u joking u cuck. it is all men.
mhhh how weird then… not all men BUT… all women have experienced something terrible with a man… really brillant to blame women for calling out patriarchy and sexism !!!
They aren't gonna fuck you for being on their side kelp I love how that's your whole take away from this thing is just that
Hope all you repliers join the workforce and gain some male friends because sitting on your ass on tiktok all day does not make you oppressed.