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What should I do?
My boyfriend asked for some time off our relationship. He's saying he's lost himself and there's a mountain of problems he has to face on his own and doesn't want to drag me into it. Today marks our Day 1 of no contact (IT'S KILLING ME) I feel pathetic tbh. It's got me overthinking as to how he's taking this so well. This set up isn't killing him just like it's killing me???????
What hurts me more is that I GOT LOST TOO. I FUCKING LOST MYSELF AT ONE POINT IN OUR RELATIONSHIP. Did I give him up? HELL NO. I got my shit together. So why can't he??? I've read that a persons effort towards you is a reflection of his interest and it... I can't even face the truth.
Pls I'm just lost, hurt, confused and pathetic right now. Please be kind. I'll take into consideration what you guys are going to say. (He's my 1st bf )
girl it‘s time to pack it up and move on. everyone deals with their problems differently, you may have found yourself again without losing him in the process but he‘s not you. he should‘ve communicated things better. i‘m sorry that happened to you but let‘s focus on how to move on from him!! :) 1 reply
This is pretty normal in relationship and trust, it's better than him accidentally lashing out on you or what. Me and my bf used to get in a few arguments due to my awful mental health. Some people just need time for themselves to reflect and get better mentally, you don't need to contact 24/7 just to feel like you're in a stable relationship. I me...... reply
I had the same problem where I wasn't mentally right and so I just shyed away from boyfriend and being vulnerable with him because Im avoid type of lover so I always pull back..I almost asked my partner for a break too..so I say all this to say i get him he might be overwhelmed with his feelings and not sure how to talk it out and usually I would s...... reply
