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THE BL COMMUNITY HASN'T GOTTEN WORSE

Haliwave Haliwave 2026-05-27 10:15:58 About question
literally it was hellfire back in the amino days. Fighting over toxic yaoi, arguments with others. It was soooo messy during the days when Blood Bank was popular.

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Lavi May 27, 2026 11:36 am

I am just gonna give my unwanted opinion that yes BL community has gotten worse. This is not to say it's unbearably so or it cannot get better it's just a part of becoming mainstream ig.


There are like two factions of people
1. Completely in favor of toxicity and such nature in the medium that they forget the limits in fiction(extreme non-con, or certain pedophilic elements)
2. Absolute moral police who read the same stories but then trash talk the author as well as fellow readers.


There is also this constant friction due to piracy users and people who read on official platforms. While it's understandable I don't see this in other communities as much.

Oh and don't get me started on the delusional fights people have over "who is the better black flag and 1000 words of why it is so", girl they are all trash, why are you trying so hard to prove someone is good who would be considered a criminal by IRL standards. Just read them as jack off material because that is why they are written, they aren't meant to be compared to IRL standards in anyway.


There is also another concern I have with how much toxic content there is and kids can consume that with no limits. Now you might say well porn does the same..well atleast porn is shunned, yaoi is openly discussed on social medias, it's just something very concerning.

Haliwave May 27, 2026 12:24 pm

This was definitely NOT an unwanted opinion and I really appreciate your input. There are two major extremes constantly bickering and it genuinely makes communities like these exhausting to exist in

GLORIOUSKINGKABRU May 27, 2026 10:50 am

I personally think the community is acting as its own police, I can understand people who are weirded out by rape and shota and that stuff (I'm such person) but I've noticed that you could make one mistake, have one bad take or misunderstanding and now boom you're a piece of shit . I think there should be more idk agree to disagree

GLORIOUSKINGKABRU May 27, 2026 10:53 am

ABOUT DUMB SHIT BTW NOT LIKE HUMAN RIGHTS (Just found out a person i followed is a transphobe and i won't agree to disagree over that stuff)

Haliwave May 27, 2026 11:23 am
ABOUT DUMB SHIT BTW NOT LIKE HUMAN RIGHTS (Just found out a person i followed is a transphobe and i won't agree to disagree over that stuff) GLORIOUSKINGKABRU

Im crying im so sorry about that though!!!!

GLORIOUSKINGKABRU May 27, 2026 11:24 am
Im crying im so sorry about that though!!!! Haliwave

It's okay apparently since i replied to them disappointed they went and deleted their whole account

Haliwave May 27, 2026 11:25 am

personally, im not a toxic bl fan (too stressful for me) I also agree with the fact that this community has like two extremes fighting over who's morally superior. It's tiring

GLORIOUSKINGKABRU May 27, 2026 11:28 am
personally, im not a toxic bl fan (too stressful for me) I also agree with the fact that this community has like two extremes fighting over who's morally superior. It's tiring Haliwave

It is tiring, i keep getting accused of saying I'm smarter than everyone on this site because I made a post saying people should read more challenging stuff instead of just porn ... A post I made because of the rampant racism I've experienced

Jumbooo May 27, 2026 10:22 am

Hasn't been worse but they haven't changed imo, just toned it down a teeny bit

Haliwave May 27, 2026 11:26 am

agreed. before it was bl fans vs non bl fans. Now its more internal conflict smh

lil mew mew May 27, 2026 10:22 am

fuck youre so right but it feels like i'm less of an idiot staying in this toxic relationship with all yall if i pretend there was a time the fandom wasnt a black flag ╥﹏╥

lil mew mew May 27, 2026 10:23 am

i love yall even tho yall are collectively a black flag tho <3

Floatie May 27, 2026 10:40 am
i love yall even tho yall are collectively a black flag tho <3 lil mew mew

Schizophrenia

lil mew mew May 27, 2026 10:44 am
Schizophrenia Floatie

What a beautiful name <3 Nice to meet you Schizophrenia (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ

Floatie May 27, 2026 10:48 am
What a beautiful name <3 Nice to meet you Schizophrenia (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ lil mew mew

I could say the same for you, your usernames pretty cute!

lil mew mew May 27, 2026 10:49 am
I could say the same for you, your usernames pretty cute! Floatie

aw shucks thank you (▰˘◡˘▰) i guess not all of you are black flags <3

Floatie May 27, 2026 10:51 am
aw shucks thank you (▰˘◡˘▰) i guess not all of you are black flags <3 lil mew mew

See that's how the mc gets tricked into liking the abusive mls again!! One act of kindness and boom!!! Gosh you've learnt NOTHING

lil mew mew May 27, 2026 10:55 am
See that's how the mc gets tricked into liking the abusive mls again!! One act of kindness and boom!!! Gosh you've learnt NOTHING Floatie

I-I trusted you! After everything we've been through? boom!? I guess I'll just have to give you another chance :(

Floatie May 27, 2026 11:02 am
I-I trusted you! After everything we've been through? boom!? I guess I'll just have to give you another chance :( lil mew mew

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