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How should i try to make friends?
I've made friends in the past, but they never really treated me like a real friend. They treated me as a lesser being. In a way like i was nothing, like my opinion didn't matter. She always tried to invalidate me, and make me feel worse so she could feel better. Whenever i talked back to her she wouldn't talked to me for months. She would make all my "friends" hate me and talk behind me so i could hear them. After time, and time again she always came back. Over time she started to loose friends, but I was always there, and i always forgave her. After all that i was her only friend left. She isolated me when she lost all her friends so i couldn't make any. It's been two months since i decided to cut her off from my life. When i did that i felt amazing. like a weight had been lifted, but now i feel empty. I'm not quite sure how i should make friends anymore. Can anyone help? (●'◡'●)ノ
I don't know if I'm the best person to be answering this as I don't have any close friends of my own, but I'll try my best! I'm in highschool right now and I tend to just float between the crowds. I hang out with a lot of different people but am not to close with any of them, if you prevent yourself from getting close it doesn't hurt as much if the...... 1 reply
Talk to people in your classes, float around crowds till one sticks, walk up to someone you kind of know and just talk to them about something they're doing that piques your interest. There isn't really a set way on how to make friends and i guess it also depends on culture.
If push comes to shove start talking with the weird anime/gamer kids, the...... reply