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Am I too narrow minded?

Uhhh Uhhh 2026-05-31 13:19:44 About question
I am a CS student and my bsf is the same. I really really love and care about her. Recently we were given a group project , so naturally me and my bsf teamed up. And istg I never had any arguments or dispute with her, but doing this project with her made me realize either I am the problem or she is.
So being a CS student, it's natural to know the basics of running a computer right? Well.......she doesn't know even the basics. She owns a laptop, never brings it to college, never installed a coding software, doesn't know how to code, doesn't know how to properly make a ppt, doesn't know anything that is supposed to be basic knowledge for a CS student. She just uses her laptop to watch shows. I don't now why she chose CS as a degree, don't know how she got so far. It annoys me because, I'm carrying the entire project and she will somehow get equal credit for it. I will not choose another partner because she is my best friend. And despite not knowing anything she is a great friend and she love me the same. I already communicated my fustration to her without making her feel less than. But it doesn't change anything. So I needed to rant and here I am.
Am I too narrow minded? Do I need to relax?

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Lilith May 31, 2026 1:26 pm

Honestly, it's happened to me before but not w my bsf, i suggest you finish this & never work w her again since she doesn't even know the basics, if you want, you could let the teacher know abt this

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