nope. i miss the memories, but not the person.
nostalgia is one thing but to allow it to make you miserable in the present is another. life goes on, and so should you. ;-) reply
The very interesting thing about nostalgia is that it filters off the bad memories of the people i cut off and just remember the good times. It does get me sometimes, i might relish on the memories for a while and play a few mitski songs to match the vibe but it is what it is. I used to weep all the time i miss them and i always would find ways to ...... 1 reply
I miss them but also don't
we just kinda... grew apart, no fights or anything, we just stopped talking, no texts.
I'm nostalgic for us back then, not us now lol reply
I do. I miss our time when we used to have fun, but puberty came and she changed, she started getting jealous, made new friends, isolated me from my other friends. Eventually i stopped caring about her, about anyone and moved schools. But then after 5years(?), i met that friend again at the supermarket. Of course we talked cause of formality, hi he...... reply
YESSS OH MY GOD i miss her smmm but like we ended on good or bad terms lol we started fighting when she started to act differently and kinda rude to me when talking to her other friends but when we're alone she talked normally a few days before grad i opened it up to her she also tells me a lot of things and how im only talking to her when i need h...... reply
Nope. I cut them off for a reason. I don't cut off people whose company I enjoy, and those kind of people are worth keeping in touch with. I have zero problem showing the door to people I don't like, who are exhausting or boundary pushers. Like adios muchacho reply
Yes but no. There are things I look back on and reflect. I do miss the good memories we had and the condensed parts of them that made them a good friend, and I’d totally relive them because they were fun memories. But I would never put myself through the situation I lived in with them, only the good segments I can truly appreciate.
I think it’...... reply
