i don’t understand it myself, but i can’t find myself actually being excited to read bl anymore. ik no ones forcing me but it’s just sad because it feels like an end of an era for me. i’ve been on this site since 2020 and lost thousands of manhwa (bl,action,seinen) bc of the disk wipe a few months ago. tbh, i wasn’t that sad about it either and i knew that was when it was cooked for me Lol.
in all honesty, i started reading on this site when i was pretty young and six years passed and i feel like ive changed a lot. i was immature and i refused to read any straight romance, despite being bisexual myself. i indulged in gay romance only. now im going to college and i want to explore myself and other things aswell and that includes not only dating girls. i’ve dated girls all my life and i think im finally ready to actually date a guy, and the more i branched into straight romance the more it feels like how bl used to feel when i was 12 or 13. i feel like my attraction to BL is fading solely because i myself am trying to branch out into more undiscovered and unknown things in my life which feels so weird because i’ve always known i was attracted to girls all my life.
idk im not bothered by it, and i hope it doesn’t sound controversial, if it does i’m sorry and i didn’t mean it to sound offensive or critical to the bisexual/bl community at all.
That's normal bb. They say don't always eat ur favorite food or u'll eventually get sick of it. I think it's ur signal to clean ur palate and eat a new genre or heck even do something else. Once a favorite, will always be a favorite. So you may be sick and tired of it now but if you give it some time, heck even years, you'll eventually find your way back. Hope u enjoy ur new genre/hobby!
thank you <33! you’re right, i definitely am keeping my doors open haha. i really appreciate your comment and i hope you have a nice day/afternoon/night
You're not alone I started reading bl 3-4 years ago I used to read for stories and romance Now if i read any bl it's only for smut I lost my interest in romance and other bl shit
this is so real ugh, the romance is so hard to get hype for especially because a large majority are like the same 7 recycled plots where the art and smut scenes are most discernible factor of the story.
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That's normal bb. They say don't always eat ur favorite food or u'll eventually get sick of it. I think it's ur signal to clean ur palate and eat a new genre or heck even do something else. Once a favorite, will always be a favorite. So you may be sick and tired of it now but if you give it some time, heck even years, you'll eventually find your way back. Hope u enjoy ur new genre/hobby!
thank you <33! you’re right, i definitely am keeping my doors open haha. i really appreciate your comment and i hope you have a nice day/afternoon/night
You're not alone
I started reading bl 3-4 years ago
I used to read for stories and romance
Now if i read any bl it's only for smut
I lost my interest in romance and other bl shit
this is so real ugh, the romance is so hard to get hype for especially because a large majority are like the same 7 recycled plots where the art and smut scenes are most discernible factor of the story.