Am I just crazy

I feel like alot of people also disregard what women have gone through because of men and bring up equality by comparing the wrong things, like for example just saw a video of a woman saying it's the bare minimum for a man to bring flowers for a date and everyone were acting like that's rude and it's the same as a man saying it's the bare minimum for a woman to cook for her family like bro....I don't think those are the same things ? Idk anymore...
People have lost the plot imo