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Parents ever unknowingly gave u trauma or depression. Pretty sure they did. In my case it's related to food. There r a lot but let's talk Abt this. I dont know if they r aware of Wt they do ,but sometimes my mum used to flatly decline when I used to ask for second time serving of rice or like meat for the sole reason that my brother might get hungry at midnight. Yes he tends to eat at midnight btw. But wt Abt me who wants to eat rn. Also my dad just picks the food from my plate while iam eating and adds it to my brother's plate. Nd my brother ain't a growing young boy , he is 7yrs older than me. Now iam just used to eating in small portions. Wt Abt you guys?
same she made me develop an ED when i was 13 #RuinedMyLife . this bitch is the reason to almost every trauma i have anyway. my dad too but idrc about him to be fair. 2 reply
I think I'm pretty fortunate in terms of parents although I do believe my father is pretty passive while my mom borders on emotional incest when it comes to me, i think the fact she is so all over me, always, made me so underdeveloped in life...but I also have come to the realization the reason she is so attached to me is both guilt because she had...... reply
I used to struggle with food a lot a few years ago and I refused to eat at some point so my parents made me sit at the dinner table for hoursss and make me look at pictures of anorexic people the whole duration, in hindsight they were obviously worried for their child but i wish they went about it in another way because now I have an irrational fea...... 1 reply
Erm Rant TW: mention of sexual assault
I do think majority of parents intentionally/unintentionally gives their children traumas and insecurities. I have a fair share of traumatic experience (I don't actually know if i consider some of those as trauma since I don't actually feel a particular emotions abt those certain things). Luckily, I don't h...... 1 reply
Ok, time to rant
My parents don't have a good relationship so they have been shouting at each other since I was 7.My mom would just come to me saying that she ain't divorcing coz of me and all this is for me shit. She expects me to be close to her like other moms but every time I tell she tells it to my grandmother
(maternal) and friends like I'm j...... reply
