Guys help,I've been pissed at my friend for a very long time now. But I always brush it off like it's nothing. All she does is yap about her other friends and cousin stories. She never let's me say a thing. When I do she just interrupts me and starts her stories again. Yesterday we had a school competition project and I chose to make a comic. The comic I made was rlly nice. It was a three panel comic about ai vs human. We had to paste it on the board we made. I wanted all the panels in order. But she got all bossy and pasted it like a mess. It pissed me off so bad,I took my scissor and went to the bathroom. I just didn't know what to do and I did sh cuz I felt stupid for being mad over something so stupid. Or so I think. My question is,is it a stupid thing to cvt over or no? And should I leave friends like her and did I misunderstand her for a bossy bad friend?
Thanks I feel a lot better now. I don't know what got into me yesterday. I went full blown crazy in the bathroom and almost got caught washing the blood off. I've never felt so understood and heard like this before it means a lot to me
tell her all this, how her actions make you feel, be genuine and don’t hold back, if she tries to interrupt while you’re telling her DO NOT LET HER, even if you have to yell “JUST SHUT UP AND LET ME FINISH TALKING FOR ONCE” you do not let her cut you off or interrupt you no matter what, and if she isn’t receptive and doesn’t care that her actions make you feel really bad, then she was never your friend and you are MUCH better off without her. Sincerely, someone who put up with bullshit “friends” like that for WAY too long and wish i had ended it sooner
Thanks,I feel like I should try to tell her about it tomorrow. This really made me feel heard. I do want to try to talk to others and not depend on her bc she's my only friend. I feel like maybe I'll find someone who doesn't cut me off in the middle of my sentence. Thank you so much,I can't express my happiness to be understood in words right now!! Tysm( =＾ω＾)
Not stupid, but you should communicate. If your friend is making you that mad to the point you’re harming yourself then that’s a sign to stop being friends with that person. Trust me, it’s hard to communicate and cut off a friend but once you do you’ll feel a lot better. Just be honest with her and end it on neutral terms. (Also I hope you’re okay, you will make better friends eventually. And please if you ever feel like harming yourself again reach out to someone.)
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Thanks I feel a lot better now. I don't know what got into me yesterday. I went full blown crazy in the bathroom and almost got caught washing the blood off. I've never felt so understood and heard like this before it means a lot to me
tell her all this, how her actions make you feel, be genuine and don’t hold back, if she tries to interrupt while you’re telling her DO NOT LET HER, even if you have to yell “JUST SHUT UP AND LET ME FINISH TALKING FOR ONCE” you do not let her cut you off or interrupt you no matter what, and if she isn’t receptive and doesn’t care that her actions make you feel really bad, then she was never your friend and you are MUCH better off without her.
Sincerely,
someone who put up with bullshit “friends” like that for WAY too long and wish i had ended it sooner
Thanks,I feel like I should try to tell her about it tomorrow. This really made me feel heard. I do want to try to talk to others and not depend on her bc she's my only friend. I feel like maybe I'll find someone who doesn't cut me off in the middle of my sentence. Thank you so much,I can't express my happiness to be understood in words right now!! Tysm( =＾ω＾)
Not stupid, but you should communicate. If your friend is making you that mad to the point you’re harming yourself then that’s a sign to stop being friends with that person. Trust me, it’s hard to communicate and cut off a friend but once you do you’ll feel a lot better. Just be honest with her and end it on neutral terms. (Also I hope you’re okay, you will make better friends eventually. And please if you ever feel like harming yourself again reach out to someone.)