Just a small simple list of BL recomendations where the MC is not hopelessly pining over the ML who is 100% "heterosexual" or at least tries to expand the trope beyond that. One could argue that most BLs nowadays don't use this trope very often anymore, but I chose these five because I feel they are the ones that resonate the most with me as someone who is also queer irl.
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the third decade mentioned...I love my depressed yearning tops
Me toooo
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