I can’t tell if I actually like my close friend, and that’s why I hate the thought of them lying to me or hooking up with someone else, or if it’s just my attachment issues.
How do you even tell when you genuinely like someone versus just being really comfortable with them and liking the thought of having them in your life?
A good rule of thumb for romantic attraction imo is to imagine a long term relationship with them. Imagine 10-20 years later.
If the idea makes you uncomfortable or you feel like you’re missing something, you’re probably not romantically attracted to them. If the idea makes you happy BUT you have a bunch of clauses (not wanting to do a lot of romantic acts), you might just want a platonic long term partner.
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A good rule of thumb for romantic attraction imo is to imagine a long term relationship with them. Imagine 10-20 years later.
If the idea makes you uncomfortable or you feel like you’re missing something, you’re probably not romantically attracted to them.
If the idea makes you happy BUT you have a bunch of clauses (not wanting to do a lot of romantic acts), you might just want a platonic long term partner.
Good luck
Girlie thats not helping if anything that sounds great
You’re probably attracted to them then lol .. I feel like when you’re not attracted to someone your gut will always let you know fr..