People will say literally ANYTHING but care for people who do SH. There's this old ass history teacher I genuinely don't like, so during a class we were discussing about some topics and she started to talk about self harm. 1. She's an old hag and 2. She's the type of person to say you're ungrateful for killing yourself. As a SH victim I'm used to people shaming us do obviously I knew what I had coming. But oh my god. The words she spewed that day was so diabolical, stupid and so random?? She said how people who do self harm are stupid because when they have scars and they go to get a job people will think they're still suicidal so they will be unemployed therefore it's such a dumb and unnecessary thing to do �?? what the fuck does that even mean like more than getting mad that's just funny because HOW does one even come to such a conclusion 😠I want to stop caring but getting it out would make me feel better because damn what the fuck was that
Some people are more quick to blame victims to relieve themselves of mental fatigue. They have narrow minded thoughts that can only be opened if someone close to them was in that same situation. I'd say just live life safely or better than these people who still live despite saying harmful rhetorics.
It's geniunely odd how people only judge you for doing S/H only when its related to cutting yourself. I'm a self harm victim and I used to bash my head against walls, no one said anything about me ! People will only show disgust when there's evidence of what you do. It's gagging that as long as you suffer in silence nobody cares, the moment scars are visible you'll be shunned for wasting away your life. Makes you think really, wouldn't these efforts be more effective if you pushed for better mental health facilities instead spending your day telling teenagers under pressure they're whiney batches?
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Some people are more quick to blame victims to relieve themselves of mental fatigue. They have narrow minded thoughts that can only be opened if someone close to them was in that same situation. I'd say just live life safely or better than these people who still live despite saying harmful rhetorics.
It's geniunely odd how people only judge you for doing S/H only when its related to cutting yourself. I'm a self harm victim and I used to bash my head against walls, no one said anything about me ! People will only show disgust when there's evidence of what you do. It's gagging that as long as you suffer in silence nobody cares, the moment scars are visible you'll be shunned for wasting away your life. Makes you think really, wouldn't these efforts be more effective if you pushed for better mental health facilities instead spending your day telling teenagers under pressure they're whiney batches?