I'm a teenage parent, and I got shamed for putting my kid up for adoption and not wanting to take care of it. Abortion is illegal in this country, you literally have no choice. I hate it sm when ppl would say I'm a "neglectful parent" But like, the only reason it even went there was because I got coerced. I didn't want to have sex, my ex guilt tripped talking about how they would kill themselves if I don't agree. I wasn't in the right mindset, I wasn't careful. So when my child came, I couldn't even really look at them. It kept reminding of that time. We both agreed to put it up for adoption cause MENTALLY and FINANCIALLY we weren't capable. I don't know cause I feel so terrible but I just can't. I don't want to take care of a child I never wanted to have, abortion was illegal and I'm too young. The baby is a constant reminder of how I hated that moment, of how manipulative my ex was.
Ignore them, you did the right choice and the best choice at that, you thought about what was best for the baby, and did it and plus taking care of a baby is both draining and expensive and if they try to shame you don't let their words get to you, And even if you kept the baby they will also call you reckless and irresponsible for having a baby at a young age, and keeping it. and your ex sounds like a fucking asshole, pressuring someone into having sex and having a baby? Without even a plan for it? That's just insane!! I hope you can heal from this situation, and turn your life around, and just know we are all so proud of you. And I hope the baby finds a nice home with a capable family, please don't feel horrible about it
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Ignore them, you did the right choice and the best choice at that, you thought about what was best for the baby, and did it and plus taking care of a baby is both draining and expensive and if they try to shame you don't let their words get to you, And even if you kept the baby they will also call you reckless and irresponsible for having a baby at a young age, and keeping it. and your ex sounds like a fucking asshole, pressuring someone into having sex and having a baby? Without even a plan for it? That's just insane!! I hope you can heal from this situation, and turn your life around, and just know we are all so proud of you. And I hope the baby finds a nice home with a capable family, please don't feel horrible about it