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Am I right for being pissed at my friend for this
I’m kind of summarizing here, but a friend just ghosted me for a week, and today she told me it was because she saw me being friendly with people that didn’t treat her well. I explained to her that what she did was really upsetting to me, because she never told me what I did wrong, so it felt like she was trying to punish me, that I felt like this situation could have been explained with a simple text, and that it made me feel like she didn’t trust me enough to tell me this. We’ve been really close friends for like two years now, like we tell each other almost everything. I sent her a ton of texts over the week asking her what’s wrong, what I could do for her, and then I tried to give her some space, but she only read and never responded.
She told me that I should have known what the problem was because she told me about them (but she never told me what exactly I did wrong so how was I supposed to know) and idk the whole convo just felt really aggressive like she was trying to avoid responsibility.
I’m still really mad, I don’t want to cut her off though, should I do anything to repair the friendship or just give her space?
The reason I sent these texts was because I wanted to express how she made me feel because I didn’t want to bottle everything up, not to confront her or be mean. Was I too aggressive?
This was what she sent
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I understand why you'd be angry, ngl, but I also understand why your friend would be angry at you too.
Clearly, she dislikes these people and views them in a bad light.
Seeing you be friendly with them would, at least I think, mean that you, to some extent, are okay with what they did (especially since she told you about them?)
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