i just wanted to rant about my bad coworkers , i just want to get this out of me so that i will feel a little lighter . There are 2 guys in my office , when i joined i was kind of Naive and shy and had a little social anxiety so i used to hang out with these guys only beacuse they were my team mates and i had no other friends in office. i most of the times tried avoiding them , but they would always take me with them for hanging out at the pantry . on my first day at office one of the coworkers asked me for my salary and i was such an idiot i told them about it. since then he will be taunting me about it or saying how rich i am and shit. but when i asked him about his salary he didnt tell me .
these two guys are deppy mysogynistic but they cant be outright rude to me so they always bullied me one way or the other they will comment about my makeup and other things.
I have a habbit of cleaning my tea cup after drinking it , so i used to just clean it in the wsh basin instead of putting it dirty . so they started making fun of me for that as well and spread that around .
i have always had bad period pain so i had to take sick leaves , if i took a leave my work was not assigned to anyone i had to do it by myself only . that is expected but this coworker started spreading shit about me , he used to gossip about me to other and even my manager that she is always like that she is lazy and avoids work .
then to not take sick leave i started working from home on those days , they have problem with that as well , whener i wouldnt come to office , they would target and point it out to everyone that she is absent and working from home only , when i will come back to office they will ask "where you were havent seen you in a while " to point out that i was not in office . this guy was not present in office for two whole weeks and came back today and asking me this shit .
i try to forget and move on , move on move but someday seriously it just gets on my nerves .
after some time new teammates have joined the team and we are very close they are good friends beacuse of them i am still employed.
today my friend wasnt their so i was alone so they agin started cornering me and targeting me on wenesday i wasnt present in office and this guy was there so he kept asking everyone where is she ? where is she ? and all today when we came out for a break in the pantry we were sitting around then this guy asked where i was on wenesday . i said i had some delivery . and then cross questioning began i told them i baught a phone . so they started asking me for party , mind you this guy baught a phone last month itself , i didnt aks him for party but here they are aksing for party.
i am just so tired from their bullshit , i mean work is already tiring , then i have deal with shitholes like these. just live your life and mind your business. I never go and talk to anyone , i mind my business i do my tasks and then go home. if needed i do some mingling here and there , otherwise people and my manger take offense to that as well that i dont talk much and i dont sit with them and hang out. tbh i wnt to live this company but AI has made job market shit so its harder for me to find a new job. its a shit life right now , i wish i could get back at these assholes in some way but i cant do anything. i just feel so stifled and so suffocated. i just wanna beat them up so much . sorry this is long and its not appropriate place for this . but this is the only place i felt like i can let down these words anonymously .
