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BDSM
I’ve been reading yaoi roughly for 6 years now, and it has opened up a whole new world (*title) for me. Even though I’m of legal age and have long been interested in BDSM, I haven’t actually tried it—or even vanilla smex, for that matter (and I don’t really have anyone to try it with in the first place, lol). So one could say I’m a “frustrated femdom” who channels that frustration through reading and imagination.
I just wanted to ask if anyone here has experience with BDSM (as a dom or sub), and how did you navigate your first “tries” and first “times”? Thanks for indulging my curiosity in advance!
TL;DR: Have you ever tried BDSM? How did you go about it, and what was the experience like?
I actually went to a BDSM club because my ex-boyfriend was into it and wanted me to see it for myself. It actually wasn't that bad as I thought, so I started trying it with him (at home not the club of course). We even did one of those BDSM quiz test just to see what we were willing to try/into- turned out he enjoyed being a sub more then a Dom, so...... reply
from my experience I manage to bring up about our kinks maybe 3-4 months into our relationship. before that i would just casually joke about some ‘extreme’ kinks like blood play etc to see how my ex gf would react n obviously we dated for a reason bc we match each others freak lolol.
taking a kink quiz & THE bdsm quiz is the fastest way to lea...... reply
