Okay long story short, my friend of like 5-6 years suddenly unfriended me in everything and I mean, EVERYTHING even in Minecraft. Our mutual friend asked why in my favor and she said I'm supposed to know like what? I'm not a mindreader like we even hadn't talked in a month or so cause of busy days, like we didn't even meet irl cause for a month it was online classes cause of building issues. I never talked shit about her behind her back, maybe on my bad days I ignored her but it was only a day or two where I was absolutely feeling worst. She didn't say anything, she didn't even tell me anything. Just one day started to ignore me even when I said hi. Yet I'm supposed to know. I'm just so upset? How was I supposed to know if we legit didn't talk for a month and it's not like I would ignore her chats, infact I reply in under an hour even when I'm busy.
I have zero clues, idk why she's even acting like this because I genuinely do not know what i did, there were no hints considering one of our last chat was okay and the one before that where I told her I was job hunting just to updateabt my life I noticed she was a bit cold and dry asf but she didn't say anything so I thought maybe she wasn't in the mood to chat.
Stopp I reread the whole thing after stopping projecting, and girl is playing mind games, thats really inmature, if she cant talk things out like an adult thats up to you if you want to be the “bigger person” and crawl for her attention, or ignore her, maybe youll miss her but do you wanna go through that every time you have any disagreement or you do something she doesnt like?
Well in my experience of being ghosted try talking to her before reaching conclussions, if she ignores you then ignore her to, there’s nothing better for mental health than not trying to fit in someones life when they dont want you in them, still you might feel you did something wrong or there’s something wrong with you, but unless you actually did something shitty try not to think about it, some people might not like you for not actual reason And thats ok
We’ve had the same experience, bro. We were super close since childhood, but because of our hectic schedules, we couldn’t hang out. Then she suddenly started ignoring me. We should just think that we dodged a bullet. People like that really have a victim mindse, it’s exhausting to be around them. They just don’t care about the friendship.
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Stopp I reread the whole thing after stopping projecting, and girl is playing mind games, thats really inmature, if she cant talk things out like an adult thats up to you if you want to be the “bigger person” and crawl for her attention, or ignore her, maybe youll miss her but do you wanna go through that every time you have any disagreement or you do something she doesnt like?
Well in my experience of being ghosted try talking to her before reaching conclussions, if she ignores you then ignore her to, there’s nothing better for mental health than not trying to fit in someones life when they dont want you in them, still you might feel you did something wrong or there’s something wrong with you, but unless you actually did something shitty try not to think about it, some people might not like you for not actual reason And thats ok
We’ve had the same experience, bro. We were super close since childhood, but because of our hectic schedules, we couldn’t hang out. Then she suddenly started ignoring me. We should just think that we dodged a bullet. People like that really have a victim mindse, it’s exhausting to be around them. They just don’t care about the friendship.