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How do people find out their sexuality?
I mean how do people know, Personally i haven't had crushes in awhile now, even in the past i've always like them for their faces, men or women alike. Now I just find it kinda weird. I like reading romance in fiction as long as it's enjoyable, but when I imagine myself having a partner i just find it kinda weird. Even when I see my friends with their partners, I just can't comprehend the idea of me like that. That said, I do find people looking good, but not so much in a "romantic" way but more of an platonic way?
some people experiment, some people just know. being asexual or aromantic is also something some people experience. some things also just come with time!
i thought i was aromantic and asexual for awhile, and then bam— something switched, and i figured out that i wasn’t. whereas some people actually are and are living comfortably and happily wh...... 1 reply
honestly i just think of liking what i like and never place a label on myself as my preference always seems to change and at one point i thought "what's the point of labeling it or giving it a name ┐(´ー｀)┌ ?" 1 reply
the master doc of lesbianism. for the longest time i knew i liked women but comphet never made me question my “attraction” towards men. i thought i was bi because i liked girls (and liking boys in my head was a default). until i read about comphet and realised wait a minute… i would always describe my sexuality in my head as liking girls, bu...... reply
I mean, I recently came to the realization that i'm aroace. Which I never really felt like I was because I was into a lot of romantic fiction, and sexual fiction hahaha. I even play a lot of gooner games. Lithromantic seems like a good label for me romantic wise, bc while i've had 'crushes', the minute anyone shows any 'real' interest in me, I run ...... 1 reply
I made an experiment in college. I tried dating this lesbian to see whether I’d like it or not. I maybe confuse right, so yeah. Anyways she broke my heart in the process but I at least confirmed I’m Bi. reply
hmm, i struggled a lot with comphet and thinking that i just didn’t experience much romantic feelings, but after growing a bit as a person and getting out of my comfort zone i came to understand that the way even casual crushes on women was something entirely different, and entirely uncharted. i think some people have an easier time than others w...... reply
I suddenly wanted to imagine who would i settle with at the end of my life(i was going home from high school by bus LOL) and i realized that i wasnt repulsed by women and that me and my brain wasn't repulsed by the idea of being with a woman so later on i figured out i was bisexual and then i accepted that actually i was pansexual after more realiz...... reply
I honestly don’t know. My problem is that I adapt really quickly. I remember I wasn’t really attracted to women, but after reading a lot of yuri, I don’t think it’s that bad anymore. I mean, it’s not just about sexuality. In general, whenever I try something, I find myself adapting to it, so I really don’t know how to label myself reply
for me, it took a LOT of trial and error. i'm gay and trans, but as a kid when i hadn't even known what being trans was, i was very much "straight". i dated a lot of boys, kissed a lot of boys through grade/middleschool. but entering middleschool as a self identified "fujoshi", i felt like the label straight/heterosexual didn't feel quite right. so...... reply
Idk I've always thought both genders were hot since like forever and kinda js experimented with all kinds of stuff with different people and I guess that's how you figure it out reply
