I am literally arguing with someone about how a trans man cannot be a lesbian. I said that’s like saying a trans woman can be a gay man, and oh my god, they said trans woman can identify under that label if they feel comfortable with it and that I was being transphobic? And apparently I was also invalidating butches by saying a trans man can’t be a lesbian, but then I’m also confused cause why would a trans man identify as a lesbian? Or why would someone say a trans man IS a lesbian? Wouldn’t that make them feel invalid or something? Overall, I’m just so tired of people who think like this. We’ve been argue about this for a while and they won’t say that they’re wrong even when other people were saying the same stuff 😭
