Guy that tried to follow/wAlK me home

He started liking me back when our whole class was on a trip where we had to do some team building together. We rarely talk, like no similar interest whatsover and we have an entirely different friend group. That and his seat was so far away from me and I was the quiet kid in school.

The thing is that I rlly hate it when people mistake your niceness for another thing. I don’t wanna sound like an asshole or anything but what happened was that He and I were seatmates in a particular activity where i had to talk to him. So like a normal person I talked to him. And then it became weird. He was on my right and I was conversing with a friend that was on my left and HE KEPT INSERTING HIMSELF IN THE TOPIC and it became awkward. Like the person I was talking to was kind of being interrupted because of his constant self inserting. And then after that he asked for a letter ( since we had to write to people in that trip) so I did because I would feel guilty not giving him one since I was already gonna write to our group( which he was also a member in.) at the end of the trip he then asked for a picture and it was clear that I was really uncomfortable with the whole interaction because it was his friends asking and it’s painfully obvious at this point.

And after this it just gets worse. Like things that I would leave in the classroom would magically be with him and he would return it to me. This is fine if it didn’t happen for multiple times. And the thing is, some of those things were things in MY DESK that I left on purpose because ITS IN MY DESK. And then our training ended and I was ready to go home. Note that I was dead tired and I was hungry since it was very late already. I was already past the exit and this guy zoomed to my side, calling me by my name. And i want to rlly cry inside. He kept asking me why I wasnt talking to him when in the first place WE DONT TALK MY GUY. We aren’t friends in the first place. And then he kept bugging me asking if I was angry at him, which was so weird for me because He said it in a way as if we were close and I was mad at him. I was practically dying to punch him inside, but I still responded in a nice way as much as I can saying ‘ I have no idea what you’re talking about ‘ And gave him the most weirded out look I could muster with my dead ass facial muscles. even after the whole awkward conversation ended, he FOLLOWED ME and asked me where I was headed to. Or well i think he wanted to walk me home, which failed thank god because my mother was going to drive me back that day. Dude literally followed me from our class to outside our building to freaking walk me home without my consent.

This continued on until I had to say it to some of his friend that he needs to stop. And I became really bitchy to him because I couldnt take it anymore.

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I really despise it when people have this some sort of weird idea of you as a person. The fact that they’re attracted to the person that they made up with your image is so uncomfortable for me. He clearly didn’t know me as a person and he then complimented me saying I’m nice. Like I get it and all but you barely know me. Normal people are nice by default. It’s like they’re romanticizing everything about you. Like having a crush is fine but not when you make people uncomfortable already. You shouldn’t like people just because of their appearance and then force this character that you created for them to be. It doesnt work that way.