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It's bc yaoi is both romanticising and fetishising the relationships, so most authors don't feel like putting in content of "alright let's have sex, wait for a bit while I go use an enema" Sometimes I'll see manga where they say something along the lines of "I have to go shower/prepare myself first" and I've read I think 2 or 3 concerning actual en......   4 reply

19 male, korean-american, pansexual (maybe??), starbucks barista, living in north carolina usa. i read a lot of yaoi not bc i enjoy it particularly but bc i need some sort of daily gay entertainment in my life (tho most of the time i'm cringing at inaccurate relationships/sex scenes more than being entertained lmfao), been reading for maybe? 7+ yea......   3 reply

I'm not genderfluid so I'm not saying this from first hand experience, but from how my genderfluid friends explain and present themselves it's not so much about the clothing and outward appearance for them as much as how they feel gender-wise that day. On days when they feel more masculine they might wear clothes that are designed for men, and on ......   1 reply

my very first manga was the law of ueki i was going to a tutor's house with my sister, and while it was her turn being tutored i would wait in the living room and read the books they had there. they had the entire series of law of ueki in korean, so i ended up reading them all over the course of a few weeks. they also had...shugo chara i think? an......   reply

I'm not out publicly so nothing like what you described has happened to me, but definitely online if I mention something or when I chat in certain groups fujos can be annoying to no end... mostly it's when they talk about uke/seme things or when they compare real life relationships to yaoi, or when they put yaoi tropes on real life. Another thing ......   reply

i'm a guy and i've been reading yaoi since...sometime in middle school? i think maybe 1st year, and i'm out of school now so about 8 or 9 years? lmao started reading when i thought i was straight and i really liked yaoi at that time, and then eventually realized i wasn't so straight and also started disliking a lot of yaoi bc how they portray male ......   2 reply

i love penpals, both the online kind and real mail kind i speak english and korean, studied japanese for 4 years but need to practise again i want to learn every language i'm able to haha, right now on my own i'm trying to study swedish, russian, and chinese but i'm a beginner in all of them i'm open to whoever wants to write to one another!! (�......   2 reply