coffeedrinker's answer page 1 (21)

... nah, dude, idk where you're getting that idea. the reason why the 'uke' is feminine is for women to project better, true. but that's bcus they're mostly written by women? yaoi was literally created as a form of female liberation, because women in sexual situations were seen as undesirables. men were safe to project onto. even if this was "th......   1 reply

I honestly hate the kids/preg aspect of omegaverse lmao. I don’t even hate kids but pregnancy, esp mpreg, makes me super uncomfortable.   1 reply

Fellow gay guy here, I agree but idk. I think you’re too intense about it? If they treat it truly like it’s coming out like being gay, sure, but I think you’re taking it too seriously lol   reply

Okay, excluding the really obvious classic stuff like Super Lovers or The Tyrant Falls in Love that romanticize abuse and/or pedophilia and rape, Hogu Hagyeongsu. Definitely. Oh my god, no BL makes me nearly as angry as that one. The reason why it stands out to me among other depictions of romanticized abuse and rape is the author clearly knew w......   reply

No but I mean, they know I’m gay so it wouldn’t be shocking that I like to read stories about gay dudes   reply

Two major ones: When the uke is basically a girl from a shitty shoujo manga with a penis When the seme rapes the uke and he easily forgives him/moves on/the seme isn’t portrayed as in the wrong.   reply

bcus they're mostly written by sexist men who view women as sex objects for their main character self-inserts...   reply

I’m a proud INTP   1 reply

I’m a gay guy and I think gay sex is hot. Also, it doesn’t have the awkwardness and uncomfortableness of “man these are two real people” that porn does.   1 reply

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USA! Kinda boring answer but I like it here~   reply

Hello fellow fudanshi ️   reply

18, male, white, student, Chicago. I’m also gay (and trans, I guess I should mention).   2 reply

Actual pregnancy. I think like, mentioning it or implying it is hot, but only if it’s literally not possible. Romanticized rape. Noncon is my #1 kink but the second it seriously justifies or excuses the rape (the narrative portrays the victim as in the wrong), it’s a huge turn off. Also complete mind break. A little bit is ok but if they’re t......   reply

I’m a man but there is NOTHING wrong with woman watching porn. Women have sex drives too! They’re human after all! Why not enjoy themselves?   reply

Gay man here   reply

I am a man, so a fudanshi and not a fujo, and I’m definitely an uke. I’m a masochist and a bottom lol.   reply

Yeah but mostly on the basis of my nc fantasies... I’d wanna be an omega, probably, the self-lubricating ass thing is nice. But I’m not really into the mpreg part, I admit.   1 reply

Sheith (Shiro/Keith from Voltron)   reply

M all the way   reply