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doing gods work queen thank you   1 reply

i think a lot of people use the phrase "it's just fiction" to justify their behavior, when oftentimes such extreme reactions are rooted in genuine, internalized hatred or emotion, whether they're cognizant of it or not. i've noticed this too, actually, where female characters are hated on simply because they're paired with a man that certain fans ......   3 reply

this is literally the fault of those tik tok new gens who cant keep their mouths SHUT!!! also what is kakao doing the majority of their international fanbase would not exist without the assistance of piracy...like they literally used to measure the worth of translating certain things by how large the pirating fanbase was   reply

you know what they say, a crush is just a lack of information   1 reply

go easy on yourself. you put the weight of the world on your shoulders and told yourself pressure makes diamonds, but you shone the brightest unburdened by expectations.   2 reply

panromantic asexual cis female here :DD   2 reply

OP HERE! it seems like some of my replies aren't getting posted for some reason. maybe its my device idk. reminder: i have friends im just looking to meet some new ppl with similar interests. don't look down on or overgeneralize an entire platform of users. it's giving intellectual snobbery. chill out. i tried to comment on everyone who requested/......   1 reply

omg bro i agreee. i've seen people (especially on discord) being downright awful to people who like reading yaoi. not all of it is shit, lol. they put vomit emojis next to manhwa they havent even read and group all of us as a whole saying we fetishize? like maybe some people do, but it's the minority? im pretty young and i read whatever looks inter......   reply

and also not to pivot too far from my main point but this kind of includes fanfiction and fandom culture as well. yeah it can be (hella!) toxic, but i've noticed a LOT of moral policing going around and calls from people for stricter moderation of ao3 content, specifically from more recent users of the platform. i am very much against this. do i oc......   3 reply

yeah i agree their promiscuity is always like some sort of coping mechanism for trauma or some bullshit. like guys...sometimes adults just have sex because they're adults and they want to lmao. or like the entire narrative centers the idea that he's a slut and the other guy needs to fix him. it's so weird. ur right total double standards bcs the "t......   reply

these stories would just be better if they were more fluid with their sexual dynamics like come on switch it up a little xD   reply

bro what the fuck is even going on i had so much shit saved and n ow ALL OF it is gone bro this cant be a coincidence considering whats going on with bato   reply

while i she shouldn't have said that or handled the situation in that way, i definitely don't think you were justified in that response...basically you guys were both assholes and it seems she's judging you for your behavior, and you're judging her for her appearance. neither of you are in the right, and while i can't say from this limited info whe......   reply

as long as it doesn't like~ negatively impact their view of like gay relationships and stuff, i think it's okay. i think a lot of us started off with yaoi the wrong way but developed into understanding what's actually good, respectful material and what's not. i started BL when I was 13 and it took me like a month to be a decent, good person about i......   reply

the argument that queer relationships are in some way "heteronormative" has also bled into real life evaluation of actual queer relationships. like saying how lesbian dynamics of mascs with fems is actually heteronormative, when that is simply ridiculous and untrue. just because one presents more "masculine" and the other more "feminine," doesn't m......   1 reply

lol NO   reply

pffft 13 >:D (▰˘◡˘▰)   reply

this is so incredibly real. i want to do so much and under the pressure of my desires i end up neglecting them all. i just rot and fulfill my duties to the barest minimum. and yet i love my incessant curiosity and interests. there truly aren't enough hours in the day. what kind of art do you like producing, OP? whats your favorite medium of art?   1 reply

this is a very normal and valid experience to have when you're young. humans are in a constant state of evolution, mentally and physically, and trust me when i say that even if you feel stuck and alone right now, time moves and you move along with it. always. it sounds like you're still in high school. eventually, you'll move out of your hometown. ......   1 reply

like no but there should be way more i feel like theyd do so well and id be on my knees for something like that the manhwa game is getting boringggggggg   reply