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Are you truly married if your husband doesn't know you read bl?   2 reply

Valid crashout tbh.   reply

This is such a good question and I'm so mad I can't think of anyone right now. I'll come back to you on this.   2 reply

I think everyone has some amount of internalized misogyny (thanks patriarchy). It's hard to separate yourself from it when it exists in various forms everywhere. It's hard trying to exist as a woman. No matter what you do, you will be criticized. Present femme? You're catering to the male gaze. Present masc? You're denying femininity and worshiping......   2 reply

Reiterating for everyone out here - THIS IS NOT A SAFE SPACE. DO NOT GIVE ANYONE YOUR PRIVATE INFO. Ppl are amazing at masking their true selves behind a screen. That nice person giving you recs and advice? You don't know them. They could be a psycho. Always be careful, even if you think you can trust that person.   2 reply

You missed the big wipe at the start of the year. Something happened to one of their disks and mgg lost a lot of data. That data included everyone's reading lists. All the reading lists were obliterated. Mgg brought back what they could using whatever data they had left, but there's still a lot missing or misplaced. So if your lists look different,......   2 reply

Shocking that someone who allegedly created and funded an organization to help strays doesn't even know the basic costs of veterinary care.   1 reply

It's ok to end a relationship with someone because of their mental illness, that includes depression.   1 reply