it's true that loyalty is a plus, but certainly not good enough to compensate the stress, toxicity, emotional blackmail and rando, bullshit you have to go through with such an unstable, needy and possesive lover, but it can be quite a rush and ego trip, but is tough not to get burn when playing with fire 2 reply
i am a freak i know but i just melt with the way he curls his toes making his feet look adorable, and he has a beauty mark on his pinky that i simply adore, i also can resist when he gets all cuddly and bat those ridiculously long lashes of him at me, ah i love my bishonen :B reply
It can feel disgusting, neutral, nice, fun, comforting, tender, wonderful, exciting, painful, or even scary, it really depends on your mood, timing, the circumstances you are in, and the chemistry you have with your partner, but there is no need to stress yourself about it, every kiss is an experience in itself, a sloppy or disappointing first kiss...... reply
To be honest i have never felt confusion towards my gender identity or the objects of my affection, if i have to define myself i could say i am pansexual and mostly monogamous, even thought i have been in a couple of stress free open relationships i have never been able to love and care for more than one person at a time; i've had a number of casua...... reply
have you tried to give vic a realist and cold look? i mean really long and hard look, specially focus in his flaws, weakness and annoying habits, most of the time when we find ourselves being fond of someone in our past is because we came to idealize this person and only their good qualities come to mind, when in reality no one is perfect 2 reply
how come bread is the only good thing? what about the cheese and the wine? what about the museums and fashion week? anyway, France is a place where shitty and lovely people go about their lives doing the best they can just like anywhere else, is far from perfect but perfection doesn't exist, c'est la vie :P reply
I wish the question was formulated in a clearer way, I have no clue what this kid is really asking but to make it short bi means two and pan as a prefix denotes multiplicity, therefor pan is more inclusive than bi. reply
I started some months ago to provide fresh water and cat food for the feral cats and hedgehogs in my garden (here it's forbidden to feed feral cats in public spaces) and seeing them come to eat and drink while feeling safe here gives me joy and observing them it's really entertaining, sometimes I see several hedgehogs and cats of different sizes wa...... reply
I used to faint from the pain, thnakfully, it got more manageable eventually, my survival kit includes a hot water bag, hot cinnamon with honey infusion, and plenty of cuddles, it does help a lot, also weed takes the edge of the pain better than painkillers for me, but if that is not feasible for you any antispasmodic med will most likely help, bon...... reply
hey there newbie, how do you have sex? do you prefer long sessions or quickies? do you like to be on top or the bottom? how about being taken from the back or the front? are you proactive or a dead fish? do you like it rough or gentle? i think you are a girl so when masturbating do you prefer clitoris stimulation or penetration? when stimulating yo...... reply
I don't think the problem is that your friends are bisexual, but the fact that your friends are constantly talking about romance and relationships, you should tell them that you are happy to support them but you need to talk about other things too, because this particular topic makes you feel left out, if they care they will understand as long as y...... 3 reply
If there is one thing that i got right in life is giving myself time and space to get to know and accept who i really am, without filters, excuses or justifications, just embracing the good, the bad and the downright weird.
Knowing and loving myself with realism allowed me to be good to myself, to treat myself and others with respect, it has also ...... reply
Sweetie, your self-worth is not measured in kilos or pounds, so try to not give to others the power of determining you, you are worthy of love; that being said I have been chubby most of my life and I used to do tons of fad diets in my teens, everytime I lost some weight eventually I got it back and then some more, so I was off to another fad diet ...... reply
My love and i love to discover new flavours and products, eat and cook, when we lived in Paris we could expend hours commuting in the smelly metro system just to grab some Korean or Brazilian food, and when we lived in Chile we could often travel to Peru just for eat really lovely dishes like ceviche or seco de chivito, i am quite a good cook but i...... reply
I am indifferent to this label, good for those who find usefulness on it, but it doesn't define me. The stereotype of the delusional, often young female who is unable to separate reality from fiction and disturb people in real life with their "shipping" BS is quite sad and pathetic, fortunately, I have never met such a walking cliche IRL ^^ 1 reply
Most likely i could bring my well hung latino self to the nearest gay sauna or glory hole, not very romantic i know, but gotta make the most out of it while it last, plus assuming that you could revert back at any given time is not the best time to go around promising eternal love heh reply
I don't see anything wrong with you, it's okay to dislike one or more alcoholic beverages, my first time drinking I got sick from mint liquor and 500 years later I still feel gross about it, later another bad drinking experience put me off tequila for what it seems to be forever and that's okay. Alcohol has zero nutritional value, its an expensive...... 2 reply
