Damn D~A~K~U Katsuki's answer page 2 (45)

Yaoi and BL is primarily aimed at heterosexual females. Now, this doesn't mean it's BAD. As a queer person, I wonder if I should feel more upset about it, but I don't. When women sexualize boy x boy love, I feel the same way I feel when thinking about porn. It's just not very applicable for me. Yaoi and real-life are different. Characters in yao......   reply

To be perfectly honest, I think physical appearance does play a part in what can be beautiful. For me, it's the combination of confidence, swagger, and charisma. Any sort of beauty beyond that is a bonus. I couldn't fall for someone who didn't carry the listed traits above even if they were drop dead gorgeous. But that's just me. I'm attracted to t......   reply

So for as long as I can remember, I haven't matched up what my conservative group of peers thought of as female. It wasn't even the skirts, dresses, or long hair so much, but more what I found beautiful in myself and others, and what I wanted to do with my life. I grew up in a predominantly Jewish group of people who had some... interesting rules......   1 reply

That my parent will find out my tastes. Whether it be in politics or my choice in reading or binging material, I'm terrified my parents will be disalusioned to my true nature. It would cause them unhappiness. My own feelings don't matter so much. Their unhappiness isn't a price I'm willing to pay.   reply

I'm sorry that you're having a tough time. I've been su*cidal before and it really sucks. It took me a long time to get mental health care because it took me a while to WANT it. Now that I have it, it is utterly irreplaceable in my life. I'm learning how to deal with conflicts and arguments properly, how to process emotions, how to make boundaries,......   reply

OH DEFINATELY. So think of it this way. Sadism and Masochism exist on two different planes: physical and emotional. A uke could EASILY be a sadist. Imagine him lording over his power, his body, and his words over a seme that loves when that is down to him. Just because the seme is in the penetration position which is typically the mans position doe......   2 reply

In general, I dislike children. I find them sticky and dirty and lacking the capacity to hold any semblance of emotional maturity. That being said, I've recently acquired a baby brother. He is like a cat. He can stay. For now. (I'm kidding I love my brother.)   reply

I read TONS of Bl and yaoi, but I don't know that I would consider myself a fujoshi. I generally prefer homosexual romance to heterosexual romance because I have trauma associated with the latter. But my dad recently found out that I enjoy reading, watching, and writing things in this genre. He actually took it really well. I'm an adult now, and th......   reply

I don't think it's a matter of being 'too old' for something. Rather, I think it's that different things interest us at different times in our lives according to when we're open to receiving them. This has been the case for me with the stories I read, the media I consume, and the things I learn. So to answer your question, no, you can't be 'too old......   reply

August from the Philosopher's Grandson. Lowkey in love with that guy's personality.   reply

Counter question: Do you find it weird when gay people read/watch straight romance? No, because straight romance is the norm in media. As a person (and a lesbian), I enjoy seeing expressions of all sorts of love. In fact, I actually prefer to avoid straight romance because of my own personal hang-ups, but I still enjoy the genre a lot.   reply

Ah god, hard question. Depends on the day. Sometimes my greatest fantasy is to have a strong, muscled male obey my every whim, possibly donned in a collar, possibly on his knees, possibly with a vibrator inside him. Other days I wouldn't mind being dominated myself by either a female or a male. I'm a fickle beast, I am. ╮(￣▽￣)╭   1 reply

I have, and I actually really like it. I like it better than vaginal intercourse. This could be due to my aversion to heterosexual relationships from childhood trauma, or because I have endometriosis which makes sexual intercourse EXTREMELY painful. Anal is more 'light discomfort' to me than pain. ╮(￣▽￣)╭   reply

I'm sixteen, but I've been reading yaoi since my parents made the mistake of giving me access to the internet. I always thought I was a little weird, seeing as I think straight relationships are kind of disgusting. I always wished I was a man so I could have a male lover, never really realizing that was an odd thing. My ultra religious parents thou......   reply

My immediate stare was horniness. And disgust for vaginas. Difficult if you were born with one. I feel like a gay man trapped inside a camel body. -_-" why. Fucking cruel world.   4 reply

I’ve rejectef people in the past because I felt I was too young to be in a relationship when I really needed to be focused on other things, but honestly, my virginity is probably mostly due to the fact that I am picky AF and don’t want to settle for less than what I want. So far I’ve only attracted the attention of BOYS. I can’t tell you ho......   reply

A complete and utter switch. I could melt in someone's arms and give myself fully one moment, and the next I could be taking control of the situation and ordering them to lie back. I change from day to day. I hate being female because I feel like my dominant side tends to be hindered in these situations due to my anatomy.   reply

well the first hung I would do was cry out of happiness. The second thin. I would do is building a life for myself in the body I've always longed for. I know if I were a guy I'd be gay though.   reply

My mom gave me the nickname "Lolli", meaning "sweet thing" while I was sick and in and out of the hospital through my teenage years. I always confuse the tiny moles on my body for ticks because I lived in the southern US for six years and developed a fear of them and also a hypothesis that they are actually literal devils from hell. I was a sup......   1 reply

It was the first time I'd ever seen queer people in media and helped me realize that even if I wasn't straight I could still have a beautiful and story-book worthy relationship. In my community, queerness was always something you only spoke about to insult or complain about. I'd never seen it presented in a positive light.   reply