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I say do what makes you happy. If you don't wanna be in a relationship/marriage, that's perfectly fine. Not everyone follows the same route in life. We go through our own experiences of life and time.   reply

Yes, you need a resume. Google resume templates and copy the basic ones. So it should have your name, address, email, and number. Then your education. Then any experience like other jobs you've had (like babysitting for family or other random things), after school clubs or any community service you've done.   3 reply

I knew I was not straight when I was about 18-20 years old. I knew because I developed a crush on one of my friends. Then i realized, I've actually had crushes on same sex friends before way back in elementary school. It just took me now to realize it. I knew I wasn't straight when I wanted to have sex with the same sex. But I also want to have sex......   reply

No it isn't normal. Idk if you're lonely or just want to feel like someone's "center" of attention but being in a codependent relationship ain't it. Sounds cute in these Mangas but it is mentally draining IRL. Just go to reddit and read the relationship subreddits and you see how these "possessive" partners actually play out. Spoiler: there is alwa......   reply

There is a difference between popping and prepping for anal. If you shit so big that it "loosened" your asshole, you're likely bleeding from it and in pain. Will always have to prep for anal.   reply

I have two husbands. 1 is my long time husband Gaara. I grew to like him the more I saw his character develop as I watched the Naruto series. When I was first introduced to his character I did not like him. I was secretly rooting for Naruto to whoop his ass (as seen in the episode during the chunin exam when Gaara fought against Sasuke). But when h......   reply

I prefer color. It helps me pay attention when I read. And sometimes the adding color enhances my experience reading it. Black and white is good too but if I could choose only one, I pick color.   reply

Yaoi because a lot of the Yuri I tried reading, the characters are very loli-like in appearance which isn't my type of genre. I'm not a big fan of loli/shota genre.   1 reply

I clenched my butthole and internally screamed. But now I read them LOL.   reply

This is actually a very dangerous question to ask. You're asking for someone to share their experiences (of course voluntarily) and then offering help. Are you licensed to help with traumas of sexual assault? It sounds like you wanna hear them out, be supportive of them, and have good intention but you may be doing more harm than good.   2 reply

I would say "what do you think you're doing?" And be upset. I'll be upset because I don't have any feelings for my friends that way and it would unpleasant. It would be a different story if I had feelings, but since I dont, a kiss would be extremely unwelcomed. And then ask them why. Then let them know where the line is drawn if they want to still ......   reply

I don't have a set and stone ideal person because I'm always finding new things that I like or find that what I used to like is what I no longer like. But some consistent traits that I've noticed in all my crushes are that they are more outgoing than me (more talkative, likes to explore more, and for some reason they like the outdoors while I don......   2 reply

If you're gonna have sex, know how to use a condom/birth pills. Stay safe. When in doubt about a partner or yourself, get a STI/STD test done, ain't no shame in that. And of course, consent should ALWAYS be asked for. I'm talking FULL CONSCIOUS NON-DRUG/ALCOHOLIC influence decision making consent. Anything lower than that is not consent.   reply

There is a reddit thread where this guy posts about how he broke his two arms and eventually had a sexual relationship with his mom. Yall should go read it. idk the url but I'm sure if you look it up, you'll find it. It is very interesting to read.   1 reply

If you're a male, there's a fleshlight (sex toy). You could go out and get laid, just make sure you got a condom. And stay safe about it. If you're a female. It's a little bit different from a male because of the whole hymen/blood situation of vaginal sex. I don't mind if you lose it to a friend/stranger. But the hard part is making sure the partn......   2 reply

My first crush was probably in the 5th grade. We were friends for a while and was always in the same class (everyone stayed in the same class during elementary). So for 2 years we were in the same class/homeroom. Then i realized I liked him in 5th grade. I wrote him a letter about it. He shared it with his friends and then everyone knew. My crush l......   reply

If you're still looking for a penpal, I don't mind being your penpal. I don't really keep track of responses I post, so if you're still looking for one, feel free to message me! My Kakao is: Circan, profile is of Jin from Samurai Champloo :)   2 reply

I don't know how old you are and your grade but the times I confessed to my crushes were when I was in middle school and high school. There were 3 guys I liked at different times from middle school to high school and I confessed. I was rejected all 3 times. We were good friends but they just didn't see me that way. The one that I can recall was in ......   3 reply

I didn't realize I wasn't straight until like 1 year ago. I had my first same sex crush when I was in 8th grade. I started to develop feelings for my best friend. But I thought it was a "phase" since the people around me would tell me that people who experimented with different gender and sex were just in a "phase". After that, I had small crushe......   reply

I would date both sex. But as for yuri, nope. Whenever I try, the female characters are mega lolis. Turn off. I did find one that I like but not for the plot LOL and not loli-like characters.   1 reply