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first off, if you're pan, then why do you think you... don't know about how it is to be lgbt? unless you're basing this "knowledge" off bl? because let's be real here, absolutely none of the stuff on this site accurately reflects mlm relationships. a straight who reads bl doesn't "know more" about the inner workings of the community just because th......   3 reply

what the fuck is wrong with you guys. you're literally saying you'd like to rape somebody, or you want to be raped. couching it in language like ~violate~ doesn't detract from the meaning. get some help.   2 reply

honestly irl? no. but on this site? good lord, have i. there was one person who was complaining about living in a homophobic country and a gay man being ostracized and his boyfriend literally not being able to come back into the country, or something like that - but they weren't complaining about homophobia being bad. they were complaining about n......   reply

That's interesting. I think your family has a really neat tradition, tbqh. Do you keep a daily journal, or one that's got a little longer bit of time between the writing intervals? I guess I too am in this sort of minority. I'm religious (sort of - I'm lax in keeping the traditions of my faith, but my sect is known as the one that's a little more ......   1 reply

My religion has multiple branches, and I was raised in the most... ah, I don't know what to call it. Loose version, I suppose? My branch adheres the least strictly to traditional laws of our sacred text, open to more interpretations, and tend to be much more assimilated with society at large. I have always viewed it as the most logical option - I g......   reply

okay, you sound young, so i'm not going to fault you for it. but it's really invasive of you to ask your friends questions about their sex lives completely unwarranted. would you do the same for a straight person? yaoi and yuri are extremely unrealistic, and you shouldn't turn to it for a depiction of the sex life of lgbt individuals. yaoi/yuri is ......   reply

i'm bi, but i suppose my concept of attraction (especially in how it's not rooted in binary gender, like the mainstream definition of bisexual currently is) would fall more under the "pan" label. i don't feel like that term really fits me, though, and i found bi first and i'm sticking with it :)   2 reply

bi girl here. i've been out since 8th grade, when i came out to my mom. that's when i figured out i liked girls, but i'm pretty sure i'd been suppressing it for longer than that. i couldn't say it out loud bc i was crying so hard so i wrote it on a post it note. i don't remember how i came out to my dad but it was pretty soon after. they were both ......   reply

i realized i was bi in 8th grade. i remember my best friend leaning her head on my shoulder during lunch one day, and then something in me just kind of clicked. it was really hard for me. looking back on it now, i think i liked girls before then, but i was just repressing it. internalized homophobia really screws you up. in any case, like i said, f......   2 reply

yes and yes. so far, both my relationships have been interracial, and the same goes for my parents' relationship as well. this is gonna sound weird but i have no racial preference for my partners, regardless of gender. i am also the child of a mixed faith marriage so yes, i would marry someone from a different religion - as long as they were accept......   reply