Mr Mage's answer (3)

I definitely get the appeal of CNC, being both submissive and a masochist. It's essentially just rape in a controlled setting where, in a healthy bdsm relationship, the 'victim' is in full control of when and where the play ends. It also helps when you are disgusted by your own intrusive thoughts.   reply

I feel like once you hit middle age (40-50), you start getting old.   reply