bato_yearner's answer (8)

This is gonna sound dumb but seriously, go on walks, look at nature. Go outside. Please do that, it helps get you away from the screen.   1 reply

I feel like it’s because comics beings mainstream (or just books all together) has been very open to smutty stuff. Like booktok is a large community covering all types of books and lots of books that get popular involve some sort of ‘spicyness’. So I think books just having smut being appealing to social media is like one factor.. and the sec......   reply

I probably will not teach my kid gender roles and expectations. Some people might teach their kids gender roles and depending on their views they might tell their kids gender to follow or oppose them, but I think the kids suffer a similar fate in the way they will label everything and pick it apart. If my child is a boy and they like blue(a mascul......   reply

Why don’t you just go to reviews on non queer and non romance books? There is a community of people that express their opinions on those types of books and you can probably connect with them. Reading non queer non romance books aren’t rare, plenty of people do and you can find those people where they go to it is not like they are locked behind ......   1 reply

Yes but no. There are things I look back on and reflect. I do miss the good memories we had and the condensed parts of them that made them a good friend, and I’d totally relive them because they were fun memories. But I would never put myself through the situation I lived in with them, only the good segments I can truly appreciate. I think it’......   reply

I don’t like characterized tropes. But I like scene tropes…(idk the words but a scene trope is like sleeping over and having to/warming up to sharing a bed) but plot scene tropes, character tropes, plot tropes and relationship tropes aren’t really tied to yaoi. It can be anywhere it’s just the genders change.. so… idk. For relationships......   reply

Sure   reply

I heard some manga publishing corporation found out that their mangas were being p1rated and sued. The ownership switches atleast once for the site but that didn’t save it and it eventually came down. So the answer is, they collapsed because like every crime that’s tied to the vast and forever existing web of the surface internet. It’s very ......   reply