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No. 1: like the first comment said, here isn't the best place to get proper legal advice. No.2: I am lucky enough to not be American so can't help much anyway No. 3: that guy sounds like a scumbag. If he was a decent person he would be more forthcoming and show interest in the culture of the wife. Especially not making fun of her speaking HIS lan......   1 reply

There are multiple options for you.. Visiting and engaging in BL/Yaoi Forums (I used MAL a couple years ago) and discord should have some too... Maybe through fanfic sites... The important part is to engage conversations yourself if at all possible... And you already did here oh and btw, I don't mind to hang out   reply