ohdatangst's answer (2)

It's ok to not know what to do. I went through stuff too growing up and when someone tries to get close to me romantically, I well...run for the hills. You sound like me, scared of getting close to others. And that's ok. I still don't know if I should date or not. Instead I'm just putting it off for now and raising animals. And if you don't feel co......   reply

I'd probably be a seke, tho more on the uke side of it cuz I'd only want to top sometimes. I'm more of a pillow princess and I'm the type to collapse and get weak when someone touches me, but sometimes I want to be the seme and hold someone. Sorry if I've mentally scarred anyone with the imagery.   reply