fartball's answer (8)

do not have expectations unless you are sure that person will return ur feelings. if you confess and they tell you "o sorry i only regard u as a friend/sibling" thats a big ouch. the result of this will lower your self esteem, most likely ruin your relationship with that special individual or crush your feelings for future love candidates, etc. bu......   reply

when the top doesn't get shown as often as the bottom does. i mean it's pretty understandable if the bottom is the MC and we're looking at their perspective, but sometimes just seeing the top adds another level of thrill. also, when the top looks apathetic as they're going about it with the bottom. it just looks like they aren't enjoying it as mu......   1 reply