seoulights's experience (3)

i sometimes finish reading a work without feeling satisfied by it. not because the ending in particular sucked or wasn't to my preference, but specifically because of an unequal "power dynamic" in the relationship. "power dynamic" because it's not in the "who's more dominant" context, but in the sense of "1 partner feels inferior/insecure due to th......   reply

my first yaoi in general, was probably through the hallyu/korean wave. i was/still am but is currently on hiatus, and avid korean roleplayer. i used to anime-roleplay on facebook, until twitter roleplay (real-person-faceclaim based) hit me in the face. i met a ton of people there, and i also started to find out what homosexuality was (and realized ......   reply

i've traveled to a couple of places, both at the east and west, along with the different states in my country (sadly, never japan, but i'm aiming to study there, and eventually migrating). it's really a great and fun experience, no matter what country it is and what is in the country. in a different country, or even in a different state, people wo......   reply