Itzarit's answer (16)

Do people actually go to japan expecting for their lives to turn into some romantic comedy drama or something? That sounds like a childish dream. I want to visit Japan to stuff my face with all that cute-looking food !!! (๑•̀ㅂ•́)و✧   3 reply

Every relationship has "difficulties", as you said. But most of the time, you base whether those difficulties are "worth it", depending on how much you like the person. For some people it's... "this girl is beautiful but has a racist sense of humor, can I do this?" and others, well... "she's funny & cute, but she's on a wheelchair, can I do this?"......   reply

I hadn’t lately, but I got fired from my job recently so I can’t help being overwhelmed by the thought that there are things about myself that only death can fix. In Evangelion (the anime lmao) they said “if you don’t believe you can change yourself you’ll be unable to move forward” so whenever I’m feeling suicidal I always try to thi......   reply

There’s people actually DEFENDING assault ?! What the FUCK y’all?! It’s fine to have rape/violence kinks you can vent onto hentai & porn, but there should always be a CLEAR line drawn, that you know those sorts of things are WRONG. What I mean is, yeah, fap to all the rape porn you want, but if you think that kind of scenario is something t......   1 reply

There's nothing wrong with you, honestly, it's pointless to worry about romantic stuff. The trick is just to live your life normally, and if something happens eventually, then it'll happen on its own. Just let life follow it's own course. I'm the same way, I've never really been interested in other people, so people liking me has always just been ......   1 reply

I'm a scorpio/saggitarius cusp, so.... Alpha & Omega cancel eachother out so I'd be a beta. Tbh I'm satisfied with that, all that mess of going into heats or going wild over Omega's pheromones isn't for me. Simple lives are best!! (๑•̀ㅂ•́)و✧   2 reply

Well... The thing that I enjoy most in yaoi is the emotional connection between the couple waaay before they've ever thought of sex, but... I love the dynamic of Ball of Sunshine vs Gloomy & Serious (Think Hinata & Kageyama from Haikyuu!!), so... That would probably be main characters. As for a setting (Since Breath of the Wild is still fresh in my......   1 reply

I'm 21~ And the thing that I wish someone would have told me when I was younger, is to never make life decisions half-assedly. I decided to ignore the only stuff that makes me passionate in life, which is writing & drawing, and picked up nursing instead because it seemed like a solid career. I didn't understand that getting through college is somet......   7 reply

When they pull that thing that the one who looks like the seme ends up being the uke & vise-versa. Though I’ve seen series where they pull it off perfectly, but most of the time they’re trying so hard for the shock factor it just completely turns me off. I think I’ve dropped almost every manga & fanfic that did that. Realistically, gay coupl......   reply

It might sound bad, but I take advantage that I'm a woman A LOT. I don't really feel pressure to better myself or try my hardest at anything because I'm already good-looking and men like me, so I know I can just depend on that in the future just to marry someone who has money and live a careless life. But if I was a guy.... wheew. Honestly, the onl......   reply

Never heard of a writer who needed references for feelings lmao Honestly, even if somebody gives you an answer, it will just sound shallow in your story if you dont really understand the feelings themselves. Dont block your own creativity with ''I don't have that experience'', writing is all about submerging yourself in the role of your characters ......   4 reply

I had a lot of crushes throughout my life, and I honestly thought I loved them, but when I actually fell in love with someone I realized I had never loved anyone before him (as cheesy as that sounds...). For convenience's sake I'm just going to call him Sasuke lmao. OK, well, I met Sasuke when I was still in high school, and we talked sometimes but......   2 reply

Well...I don't know if I'd call it being "exposed" exactly, but many times my sister has sat besides me while I'm reading yaoi manga and I get the feeling she knows what weird stuff I'm into but doesn't mention it lol   reply

If you learn how to read body language properly, mixed with all small signals people are constantly shooting in their speech & mannerisms, it becomes super easy to tell what intentions people have with you all the time. Tbh knowing this stuff, more than helping me, just made me disgusted of people and more antisocial. There's just stuff you're not ......   2 reply

That kinda story would be tagged under Jousei, Smut, & Horror. I looked at manga under these tags & found this list: https://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/1715080/   reply

Based on the relationships i've had, i'm really like the violent tsundere ukes that melt when you touch them (I am not even kidding on the 'violent' part, one of the reasons my last boyfriend broke up with me is because I smacked my hand to his face when he tried to kiss me, but in my defense he was trying to do it in public and I REALLY DON'T LIKE......   2 reply