StillLiving's answer (7)

As someone who is trans and gay, I have had the same things bother me about the Yaoi community. Granted this is just one of its many issues and its just scratching the surface of a greater issue as well. Although Yaoi was when I was first introduced to the LGBTQ+ community is certainly didn't teach me anything about it other than the fact that two ......   reply

Well that's just being trans, which I am, so I guess my body would just finally match my mind and I could finally live without the dysphoria.   reply

Age has nothing to do with it, you're clearly old enough to know you like someone and I think that means your plenty old enough to tell what you do and don't like. You don't have to stress about labels, that's something you can figure out with time or you may even find that you don't care for labels. If you like someone then you like someone, and t......   reply

I was 18 at the time which was still later than alot of my pears. I had always been a very sexual person however I needed to feel a level of mutual respect and trust before sleeping with anyone. At the time it was with someone I had been interested in for a while, it was mutual however he lived in the states and I was in canada. I went to visit him......   reply

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I'm 19, Transmasculine, French/English Canadian, Collage Student and Art Teacher. Also I'm pretty gay.   reply

I'm currently gender-questioning but i know I'm definitely not cis, and I don't really put a label on it but I date whoever I'm attracted to, whether they happen to be a girl, a boy or a non-binary person has never mattered to me.   reply