Bubblekitty13

Love is uncontrolable feeling , be honest about it but with out pushing , life is too short for regrets , if he is your true soulmate sooner or later will respond to your feelings ..

It's not incest, at least I don't think it is. Let me tell You my story, it kinda looks similar to what you're going through. When I was 16 I had a crush on my cousin too. He isn't related to me by blood kinda like yours. He's The stepson of my uncle. Anyways, I liked him a lot and actually my mom was ok with that. Actually, my mom and his mom wanted us to get married to each other. I didn't know that at that time. The first time that we met we were 11years old when they came to visit us. And when we saw each other again we were 18. I didn't know he came to take me with him. Because I didn't even know we liked each other. By that time I have a boyfriend, actually he was my fiance. Remember at that time I didn't know we liked each other. So I married my fiance and The next year my aunt and my mom told me that at that time he came for me to be together. I didn't know that and I was a little sad because we never had The chance to live our love. I guess it wasn't supposed to be. Anyways, what I'm trying to tell You is don't give up unless he doesn't feeling The same, so good Luck. I hope this help You somehow.

Go for it :P

I know it is one sided though He is adopted btw

But thanks anyways for all of the support. I also know that my dad would hate the idea of my liking him. My dad is a Son Of Crist kind of man. Almost everthing he does revolves around God.

Personally, I think incest is okay as long as it's not with someone who's an adult and someone who's younger than 18. Anyway, for me, I think that's perfectly normal, but to other people's eyes, I still think people would find it weird, but since he's adopted and not related to you by blood, than everything is ok.