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suicide ( in general )
Not all people I encountered understand, why would you in the first place want to kill yourself. Like why? Normal people won't. It was just ridiculous. You're just too weak. Everybody is suffering ( probably much worse than you, and yet they are still struggling to live ) So the limit of advice they would say are probably "hang on. it will get better soon" But what do you, really thought about it? When someone close to you said that they are depressive or thinking about suicides, are there any alternative to say other than "ït will get better?" ( it does sound like a bullshit to depressive people tbh )
Um okay listen up, I have untreated bipolar disorder. Ever since I was very little, like 4yo, I was bullied for something. I was too nice, too naive, too good, I didn't fit in. In high school I was involved in many different psychologically abusive relationships with people and in my second year, when I was 16, I broke down. I was always too hard o...... 1 reply
I don't think that a person who tries or wants to kill themselves is weak. They've taken some pretty big beatings in order to get themselves to that point. I think once you've been pushed against the wall without an alternate solution to the situation(s) that put you there, you feel there is no way out. I think for many it's black and white thin...... 1 reply
First of all, don't say "It will get better", 'cause when one lives with depression it never gets better. You just learn to bear it better. That doesn't mean a depressed person cannot smile, laugh or feel genuine happiness. It means that all these and other positive emotions last much shorter and don't run deep, while the pain is permanent, an emot...... reply
my depression got me so fucked up.. like.. what's the point of living..? what else is there to see? what else is there that's left for me..?
my husband cheated on me, i'm broke.. i don't know what to do with my life.. what do i really want.. all i have is my uncertainties.. insecurities.. together with my perverted thoughts.. will tomorrow get bet...... 2 reply
If you're really scared about someone's safety, you should convince them to get help. There's nothing normal about suicidal thoughts, even if you're a young person. There's nothing normal about being constantly sad or angry or just numb to the point where you would rather end your life than go on feeling like that. There are a lot of people who say...... reply
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That last part is very true, saying that everything's gonna be ok is total bullshit.
Listening to them would work better than saying robotic(insensitive) advices.
For a person who has depression (speaking from experience) it's not that they're weak, it is simply that they are very sensitive. In fact, some people with depression are ...... reply
First of all, don't start to justificate or condemn something by saying "Normal people don't ...." unless you want to be immediately discredited. It makes you sound silly, and unthoughtful. No one is truly "normal". 2nd of all, you do NOT know everyone's reasons for doing it, so belittling their reasons by saying its "ridiculous" or insulting them ...... reply
I have bipolair disease, i was diagnosed with it when i was 25. Live was very hard for me when i was younger. I had tantrums without knowing why. When i was 18 i tried to kill myself, when my mom Came to visit me she said: i knew this was going to happen one day. Having this makes me very tierd. Because where "normal" People have good and bad days,...... reply
I've been thinking about that since I was 11 ^^ Basically, I'm bored, and I kinda think living is a pain in the ass... Well, I'm still alive, because I manage to cope by reading manga. My family joke about how manga is my life, but I never told them it was litteral... Or else I'd have been dead for 9 years now.
Fun fact is, I never even thought of ...... reply
I've been at least mildly suicidal since I was say 8 or 9? I'm 23 now and while I've struggled with self harm over the last few years, I've never actually attempted to kill myself. For me, it's not so much that I want to die, just existing is really difficult sometimes. I get sad for days on end for no real reason, I'm tired all the time, I've been...... 3 reply
