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Queer in Female x Male Relationships

*Special mentions of nonbinary stories!

A collection of stories that genuinely feel queer or queer-coded involving Female x Male dynamics!

Not about femdom, soft boys etc. etc., the focus is on people who live outside of gender and sexuality norms <3

Some wholesome, some  so beware!

<< = Not enough queer fxm / kinda lazy or uninteresting

>>  = very gay fxm, very much loving it
All(61) / manga(61)

A Flowery Path for the Devastated Male Lead

 9.1(854 voted)
Complete
Author(s):
Genre(s): Webtoons / Comedy / Drama / Fantasy / Webtoons / Romance / Shoujo


Ohhh these ones came out the womb fruity I'm telling you

17 08,2024

Genderless Danshi ni Ai Sarete imasu

 9.3(178 voted)
Ongoing
Author(s): Tamekou
Genre(s): Romance / Slice Of Life


ITS NOT FAIR

edit:
***SPOILER!!!***
Bumped down to four stars because author went the lame route and traditionally masculinised him in his later years, sigh. Still a total gem, just wish it didnt end on such a conforming note!!

17 08,2024

Which Do You Prefer?

 9.0(719 voted)
Ongoing
Author(s): team muscle exercise guide
Genre(s): Smut / Webtoons / Romance / Gender Bender / Yaoi

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Bisexual king!! Im so proud of you for owning who you are!

17 08,2024

Otonari Complex

 9.3(182 voted)
Ongoing
Author(s): Nonomura Saku
Genre(s): Comedy / Gender Bender / Seinen / Slice Of Life


So happy for em TT w TT

18 08,2024

Madoka no Himitsu

 9.5(169 voted)
Complete
Author(s): kingyobachi deme
Genre(s): Drama / Slice Of Life


I dont see this one as romantic, but it's just a very wholesome story about breaking gender norms! Wish it was longer!

18 08,2024

The Villain Discovered My Identity

 9.4(229 voted)
Ongoing
Author(s): Cha sohee,Chara
Genre(s): Fantasy / Romance / Webtoons / Gender Bender


*mild SPOILER*
Bro is literally okay with them being either a girl or guy and willing to do anything to make it work you are GAY

18 08,2024

Onna to Shite Dakaretai Seitenkan Shite Hatsukoi wo Mou Ichido

 9.0(155 voted)
Complete
Author(s): Miyakoshi wasou
Genre(s): Josei / Seinen / Romance / Smut

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Trans girl finding love and security *mild SPOILER:* and him lowkey realising he might be somewhat bi in retrospect since he's always liked her regardless of gender? *chefs kiss*

18 08,2024

Ao no Flag

 9.5(152 voted)
Complete
Author(s): Kaito
Genre(s): Drama / Romance / School Life / Shounen / Slice Of Life


This one was CRAAAAZZZZY. What a ride, and a good one. I think it belongs here because ***SPOILER:*** our MC essentially realises he's bi! Also great rep navigating your sexuality while being in a hetero relationship.

18 08,2024

My Husband is a Housewife

 9.4(178 voted)
Ongoing
Author(s): Mako
Genre(s): Comedy / Romance / Slice Of Life


They make me feel so alone

18 08,2024

Company and Private Life

 9.5(285 voted)
Ongoing
Author(s): KANAZAWA Shinnosuke
Genre(s): Slice Of Life


Crying tears of joy. Love people embracing their styles the way they want TT u TT

18 08,2024

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Messages

MpregLover6769 July 18, 2026 8:34 pm

Im so grateful this list exists. I have been trying so hard to find stories like these but they're always so hidden. I love the fact that it's not just queer but it helps me forget the gender norms that makes it so uncomfortable to read straight stories.

With the stories from this list, for the first time...I felt comfortable trying to imagine myself in a straight relationship as a bisexual woman, just bcs I could see it doesn't always need to be linear. It can be this way or that way and it'll still work just as good as a cis straight relationshi..if not, I think it's even better than those.

I wish there were more, good work on the list (≧▽≦)


Especially loved the "You get trans! And you get trans! And YOU get trans!" Joke lmao I wish that one updates too

earth worm says July 26, 2026 1:20 pm

I'm glad you like the list, this is a lively comment thank you!

GLORIOUSKINGKABRU May 22, 2026 1:12 pm

I think the word you're looking for in gender non-conforming couples

earth worm says May 22, 2026 7:10 pm

thanks but no, not really. although I have included special mentions of nonbinary people here, I mean specifically female and male so couple would be too broad a term. gender non conforming yes, but the focus is female x male specifically. Not all of these stories are about coupling/romance either.

Cruchy_rollers May 22, 2026 8:17 pm
thanks but no, not really. although I have included special mentions of nonbinary people here, I mean specifically female and male so couple would be too broad a term. gender non conforming yes, but the focus i... earth worm says

Can you not call straight people queer tho? It’s really insensitive to actual queer people and straight people calling them something they’re not simply for not conforming to societal norms. Dressing different, cross dressing, or have unusual dynamics for straight people does not make you queer so pls don’t label it as that :(

Cruchy_rollers May 22, 2026 8:21 pm
Can you not call straight people queer tho? It’s really insensitive to actual queer people and straight people calling them something they’re not simply for not conforming to societal norms. Dressing differ... Cruchy_rollers

In general, straight relationships cant be queer because it’s male x female. Opposite gender. Straight. Cannot be gay at all. The people individually can be queer, but the relationship itself is not.

earth worm says May 23, 2026 12:47 am
In general, straight relationships cant be queer because it’s male x female. Opposite gender. Straight. Cannot be gay at all. The people individually can be queer, but the relationship itself is not. Cruchy_rollers

this is just bizzare. a male x female relationship doesnt suddenly cancel out each individual being bisexual, pansexual or trans?? you do know transwomen can be in a straight relationship too right (with men)? it doesnt suddenly erase the fact that they themselves are queer? Two bi people of opposite gender being in a straight presenting relationship doesnt suddenly mean theyre not queer anymore either. You're exposing how incredibly narrow minded you are. If you don't like the list, leave. I'm not changing anything for you because you don't understand queerness can happen in dynamics between opposite gender identities or outside of a "couple" relationship. Get over it.

earth worm says May 23, 2026 12:53 am
In general, straight relationships cant be queer because it’s male x female. Opposite gender. Straight. Cannot be gay at all. The people individually can be queer, but the relationship itself is not. Cruchy_rollers

for some of us, its important we get to see "straight" t4t dynamics and genderfluid "straight" couples as you like to call it. Im not interested in your rigid view point. Make your own list

earth worm says May 23, 2026 12:55 am
In general, straight relationships cant be queer because it’s male x female. Opposite gender. Straight. Cannot be gay at all. The people individually can be queer, but the relationship itself is not. Cruchy_rollers

and one more thing, saying its insulting to queer people as if Im not fucking queer myself is laughable. Dont speak for me, ever

earth worm says May 23, 2026 1:09 am
Can you not call straight people queer tho? It’s really insensitive to actual queer people and straight people calling them something they’re not simply for not conforming to societal norms. Dressing differ... Cruchy_rollers

you know what, Im not done. Im going to dissect this further. what you see as "crossdressing" I read as genuine gender fluidity. mind you, if youd even looked through the list, you would have seen there are stories including people who do identify as BOTH genders. yet you want to shrink that down to "crossdressing"? how insulting! and what you read as "unsual dynamics" is literally homophobic in itself. Those "unsual" behaviours, the bending of gender binaries, is intself part of what out modern definition of queerness is. Because you see someone male presenting and someone female presenting, suddenly that doesn't matter to you anymore and it doesnt "work" for you? if you were going to get so triggered over a fucking list title and shoot yourself in the foot by sounding like a bigot yourself maybe dont click into the list

Cruchy_rollers May 23, 2026 8:28 pm
you know what, Im not done. Im going to dissect this further. what you see as "crossdressing" I read as genuine gender fluidity. mind you, if youd even looked through the list, you would have seen there are sto... earth worm says

QUEER STRAIGJT RELATIONSHIPS DOMT EXIST BRUH OMGGGGG. Either take off all the actual straight people on here or change the title PLEASE

earth worm says May 23, 2026 8:32 pm
QUEER STRAIGJT RELATIONSHIPS DOMT EXIST BRUH OMGGGGG. Either take off all the actual straight people on here or change the title PLEASE Cruchy_rollers

Nope! Cope, block me, or kys, either way not my problem.

earth worm says May 23, 2026 8:36 pm
QUEER STRAIGJT RELATIONSHIPS DOMT EXIST BRUH OMGGGGG. Either take off all the actual straight people on here or change the title PLEASE Cruchy_rollers

pfffft. had a look at your reads and OF COURSE its the BL obssessed "queer" trying to police everyone else in the community. typical

Cruchy_rollers May 26, 2026 3:45 am
Nope! Cope, block me, or kys, either way not my problem. earth worm says

Why are you telling me to kill myself over something like this?

Cruchy_rollers May 26, 2026 3:46 am
pfffft. had a look at your reads and OF COURSE its the BL obssessed "queer" trying to police everyone else in the community. typical earth worm says

Im not bl obsessed? I read yuri and action too, and tbh I haven’t read much bl lately since it all kinda sucks ass

earth worm says May 26, 2026 6:14 am
Im not bl obsessed? I read yuri and action too, and tbh I haven’t read much bl lately since it all kinda sucks ass Cruchy_rollers

can you get lost already?

earth worm says May 26, 2026 6:18 am
Why are you telling me to kill myself over something like this? Cruchy_rollers

because youre fucking annoying. I know people like you who argue over symantics don't even do shit for the queer community irl, just sit at home being keyboard warriors over nothing burgers and read gay male porn online. get a life

Cruchy_rollers May 26, 2026 6:14 pm
because youre fucking annoying. I know people like you who argue over symantics don't even do shit for the queer community irl, just sit at home being keyboard warriors over nothing burgers and read gay male po... earth worm says

yeah cause thats totally something to die over???

earth worm says May 26, 2026 6:18 pm
yeah cause thats totally something to die over??? Cruchy_rollers

oh my gooooood shut the fuck uuuup like I care whether you live or not get a clue